The Ins and Outs of the Friendzone: 5 Reasons Why You Got In, and 5 Ways You Can Get Out

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The Ins and Outs of the Friendzone: 5 Reasons Why You Got In, and 5 Ways You Can Get Out

It's a common problem in our society.

Perfectly eligible young men are rejected and firmly placed in the "friendzone" by almost any eligible young woman.

What is the friendzone? It's a cute little box where girls put boys that are so cucked that these girls can no longer see them as men. These are the boys who girls go to to complain about the jerks they are actually dating. These are the boys that provide the shoulder for girls to cry on when their relationship falls to pieces. These are the guys that these girls probably thought were gay until they confessed their love for them.



With the prevalence of this problem I think it's safe to say that today's guys are doing something wrong.

So what is it?

Allow me to present 5 reasons why guys end up in friendzone and 5 ways to avoid it or get out of it.

Reasons guys end up in the friendzone

1. Friendship

Girls don't want a guy to be their friend. That's what other girls are for. Yes, friendship should be part of a relationship, but it should be a romantic friendship fueled by the fires of attraction. Not that platonic fairytale. A friendship with a romantic partner shouldn't be the same as the friendship with your bff.

2. Feelings

Girls like to say that they want to discuss their feelings. Truth is, girls don't know what they want. Discussion of feelings is for therapists, BFFs, and old married couples. When you have a feelings discussion with a girl she may not know it but her attraction for you instantly diminishes.

3. Emasculation

Men these days just aren't the same as they used to be. While society's ideal was once a masculine, strong man, now it's the feminine and weak hipsters and skinny pseudo-intellectuals. Women are naturally attracted to a man who can protect and provide for them, not someone they can have an intense discussion of interpretive dance theory with.

4. Submissiveness

Today's men have had it hammered into their heads by their feminist mothers that a girl like a certain thing. But in reality, these mothers found their men before feminism had sunk its claws into masculinity and turned it into the cuckfest it is now, thereby sparing them of having to try and find attraction in these scanty pickings, which would have shown them just how pathetic their ideal man is. Because of their sweet, misguided feminist mothers, these young men are taught to subject themselves to the will of women in order to win them over. Trust me, no self-respecting woman can be attracted to a man that she can get to do anything for her. The thought alone makes me loath both myself and any such a man.

5. Asking permission

Romance should be spontaneous. That's what makes it romantic. Nothing quite kills that spark like asking before you kiss. I mean, come on! If you can't tell whether a girl wants you to kiss her or not you should just turn in your man card right then and there. Trust your instincts.

Ways to beat the friendzone

1. Dominance and Assertiveness

There is literally nothing sexier than a man who knows what he wants and doesn't beat around the bush when it comes to getting it. Being assertive is the opposite of being manipulative. Manipulating is the weaponizing of emotion and it is a woman's trick. A low one, if you ask me. Don't stoop to using emotion as a weapon. Give it to her straight. If she can't take it, she's not worth it.

2. Masculinity

There is literally nothing more attractive than pure, raw masculinity. I could name many attributes of masculinity, but I think it comes down to taking pride in being a man. Men today are so often taught to hate themselves for being men that masculinity is a dying trait. Please accept your gender and take pride in it.

3. Leadership

This is a big one. A man who takes control of the relationship is a man who has what it takes to stay in a relationship. Instead of putting the relationship in the hands of your girl, take it over. It give women a sense of security and let's them know that you're interested and invested. Instead of waiting for your female best friend to finally realize that you're the one for her, show her. Take the situation into your own hands. If she sees that you're committed and determined she'll finally see you as something other than the gay best friend.

4. Strength

A man should be the kind of person who bends the will of the world to him, not his own will to the standards set by the world. You need to make your own standards and have the power to bend others to them. Strength isn't standing still as the boulder rolls over you, it is picking up the boulder and flinging it from your path. I'm sorry that that sounds so metaphorical and ridiculous, but I can't think of another way to put it. A strong man bends the world to his will.

5. Requirements

Don't just get into a relationship and assume it'll all be okay from there. You need to make sure that your girl knows what you need to feel appreciated. Again, don't let her dictate your relationship.


In a nutshell, the friendzone happens because of both men and women emasculating men and the only way to break through it is to embrace masculinity.

The Ins and Outs of the Friendzone: 5 Reasons Why You Got In, and 5 Ways You Can Get Out
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