The Alpha and Beta-principle categorizes men into two distinct groups depending on their social traits not only in a group, but also towards the opposite sex. Just like their names suggest, taken from the Greek alphabet, they illustrate a certain hierarchy. For a long time, Alpha has been said to be better than Beta, as he is supposedly physically superior and possesses higher Testosterone levels.
However, more than a decade into the 21st century, one might argue that those traits are no longer needed, when we can access both gyms and Viagra. Before we pick a side though, let's get clear on definitions. For the gentlemen, here's a guide serving to identify yourselves. For the ladies, let's see what the market offers and who to target.
The Alpha-Male: Alpha males see it their duty to serve and protect, therefore a woman will at least have the perception of being safe. The Alpha-male wants to provide and is ideally looking for a “house-wife”. Because of their high amount of Testosterone, they focus on feminine women to create a balance. Alphas take initiative. They pick up the bill and love to sweep women off their feet. Alphas prioritize physical strength, and go to the gym, which make them always be in good shape. They tend to drive a nice car. They're good at math. They are charismatic, and let's be honest; their seduction skills are exceptional and all women love bad boys.
The Beta-Male: At a young age, often very weak. They're introverted, and lack the sexy self-esteem the Alpha possesses. They easily get nervous. They're sometimes intimidated by Alphas. They will not take the first step to seduction. They sometimes pass by unnoticed, and might have a hard time making it to the top, career-wise. Beta's passive and subordinate role may drive some women crazy as they often lack initiative and their own opinion. Beta lacks a concrete plan, and is undecided about things, waiting for direction. Beta can be coward, as he is reluctant to taking risks. Betas don't prioritize the gym, and go to the library, computer store or Yoga-center instead. Betas are a scarce kind, and therefore are time-consuming to track down.
Closing thought: A combination of an alpha and beta is of course possible, but rare.
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