Does he ever think of me?
my ex boyfriend split up with me just about 5 months ago. Although he doesn't contact me and has told me to leave him alone, do you think he still... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
Yes, you cross his mind from time to time. It doesn't mean he will get back with you though.
He told you to leave him alone because he doesn't love you the same way anymore.
There are times he will miss you, and wonder what you are upto. Times when he will worry if you are okay, or if you are happy. You two shared 8 years together... you will always have that special place in his heart. But trust me, it doesn't mean he will come back.
Let him go...
I know you are still holding on... but do you really want to be with him again? someone who broke up with you? Who pushed you away... someone who told you to move on... ?
Do you really want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore?
Move on... one day at a time...
Everything happens for a reason.
What Guys Said 3
It's clearly over in his eyes, he has another girl already. What do you possibly have to gain by agonizing over if he still thinks about you? Yes he does, so what? He's moving on and you should too. Revisiting this is only going to make it harder to move along. He may be a total schmuck but so what? He's gone. You should move along in your life too. Don't give him the time of day. Find someone who cares about being with you...today. Good luck.
That's quiet a long time, he clearly does still think about you. It'd probably be pretty hard not to.. I mean come on, 8 years? lol.
Do you really love him lot and miss him lot. Try to convince him.. And ask him that you really need him in ur life... sure boy's too have emotions with in ther heart's... once you are cry in front him ...for the reason of the pain sure guys ill melt in front of ya... all the best
What Girls Said 9
i'm sure he does from time to time
the important thing to do is let go
and not to care what he thinks
he's with some other chick right now
i don't care a f*** about my ex's
Everyone thinks about their old partners at one time or another, he'll definitely think of you at some point as 8 years as a long time and you must of shared a lot of memories, both good and bad but either way he would of thought of you at some point, even if he denies it.
8 years is a long time, and a lot of memories. Out of sight doesn't mean out of mind, nobody can just forget 8 years of their life.
Im sure he still has memories but he is with someone else now. Why did he tell you to leave him alone? You must let him go and get someone who deserves you...Be happy this too shall pass...
Hey I realize that this post was more than a year ago but I really need to ask you something precisely because this was a year ago. I am going through a very similar situation. Now that it has been a year and +, are you over him? Do you still hurt? What has happened? Are you with someone else? Did he regret it? I just wanna know how you are now..maybe it will help me in some way..
I am sure he thinks about you. It sounds like you are finding it hard to move on, if he has a new girlfriend then it looks like he has. If you miss him and have stuff to get off your chest then ask him to meet with you or write an email/letter explaining things. Sometimes a break up can consume you, try to get out and socialise with friends, its the best remedy for a broken heart.
He probably does think about you..i mean eight years is a long time, but if its been five months and he hasn't contacted you and told you to leave him alone its a pretty good indicator that he's moved on.And if he's already dating someone else that's a good indicator too.I know its hard and it sucks, but you just have to be strong and move with your life.The best thing you can do is focus on you other priorities in life such as school or work for a while and then when you feel ready to date again get out there and be open to meeting someone new.Im sure you will.
i think he has thought about you, but I think he is ready to move on. I think you should do the same. If he doesn't want anything to do with you after 5 months he's not worth it.