He could be a bit more expressive, and you must refrain from drawing conclusions when YOU DONT KNOW THE FACTS.
When you bailed on the date, you think that had no effect on him? Maybe he's being cautious because he's hanging by a thread and doesn't want to fall. He still wants to get to know you, hence the calling. I don't see how he's the issue here, when getting you to go on a date is like pulling teeth..
And again, put yourself in his shoes. If you arranged a date and your guy shows up at your house the morning of, before you hit the shower, before you're even ready to look at yourself in the mirror, you wouldn't be ecstatic, would you? That's called BAD TIMING. Timing can be BAD for a million reasons and you just can't be sure what the reason is. When you set a date, stick to it. This would have been concluded already if you just followed through and went on the date, instead of drawing a stupid conclusion like you did.
I remember picking up a girl for a date and she lived in a different town that I was SOMEWHAT familiar with. I didn't use GPS and made the wrong turn, and I was 5 minutes late. We were texting back and forth as I scrambled to get back on track, and she finally said "IF YOU DONT WANT TO DATE ME, JUST SAY IT!" Like, seriously? I thought I was lucky to have an opportunity with a beautiful girl like her, and I was. Yet, she somehow drew the absolute WRONG conclusion because she didn't know the FACTS. Stop doing that, and maybe you'll be fine.
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he is interested if he keeps initiating it. just go with him- maybe he doesn't wear all his emotions on his sleeve.
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