He won't kiss me after a swallow? Why do some guys have an issue with that?

I've noticed that some men have an issue with kissing their girl after she swallows his cum. Its not like its still in my mouth (that would be more understandable). I've already swallowed it, why no kisses?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I mean...I don't know...its just...ugh. My gf would never let me kiss her after even if I wanted to, she thinks that's gross. I don't knock others for it, but there's just something unsettling about it to me, personally. She usually kisses my stomach or something when she's done.

    • lol yea thats what i do as well. He doesn't mind if i kiss anywhere else on his whole body just not on the lips

    • Yeah, same here. The hang-up is on my end, but we all have our things. I'm just kind of like, "do we NEED to kiss right now? Seems like it could wait til you get a drink or something.", haha

  • I used to be that way then I realized how immature that is...why am I scared of making oral contact with remnants of my own semen,

    like somehow that's going to transform me into a homosexual? :-P

Most Helpful Girls

  • He's probably one of those idiots who think it's "gay" to kiss a girl after she's gone down on him, no matter where the cum went. It's from his own damn body for fuck's sake. It sounds immature, honestly.

  • I don't expect a guy to kiss me after I gave him a blowjob, just as I don't want to kiss a guy after he ate me out. But that's me, don't know about others.

  • because he feels like he is tasting/ swallowing his own cum

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  • It's called 'social norms'.

  • I wouldn't want to kiss your either. I don't know if you were my wife I wouldn't care.

  • Me and my ex always kissed afterwards no matter who was giving or receiving. It's a sign of commitment. It's petty not to in my opinion.

    • Exactly. Truth is, I keep his sperm in my mouth during the kiss, because I want him to experience what it's like to be me and get a mouthful of cum after a BJ. He likes it and we still respect each other.

  • Doubt you'll find a rational explanation, guess he just thinks it's icky or something. Tell him to get over it.

  • Well, than don't give him no more oral sex

    • When it comes to this , It should be a mutual thing

  • i usually drink some water or something after and then continue the kissing

  • then cut him off any type of sex when I eat my wife out I give her a kiss on the lips when I get done

  • I was like that, then she got all sad and so I just manned up. I still need a lot of courage to do it.

  • I would kiss her...

  • I just ain't with it.

  • Because it had cum in it. Eeewwwww that's nasty

  • I used to but I am over it, just don't purposely leave my DNA in your mouth

  • For the mere fact that you swallowed, you deserve at least a kiss.

  • I never swallowed a guys cum. He didn't do anything to deserve it.

  • My policy is kisses after or no more blow jobs. They'll have no problem kissing you in a hurry haha

    • Hahaha. You sound like fun

    • Shiiiiit.

    • I know right. I don't take anyone's shit :p

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  • They think it's 'gay', LOL. Not only would I kiss you. I'd snowball it if that's what you wanted. I don't give a shit lol.

    • WTF!!!

    • Yeah, boy. You heard me.

    • Are you that same guy who just told me on the other question about deep throats?

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  • Laugh and tell him to grow up. That or just not swallow until he grows up.