If a guy hasn't texted you in a month what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

Me and boy were talking on the phone the last time we spoke. And we haven't spoke since then and I don't know why :/
I know him quite well, but we're not dating yet.
However he does still talk to my friend about me so I don't understand why he's not talking to me.
Is he waiting for me to make the first move or has he found someone and isn't interested anymore?

[Clappy]

Could be a number of different things. Could be waiting for you to make the first move or could be playing that, let her chase me game and if you're on here asking about him, he's definitely playing it well. However, a month? He must really want you bad if he's willing to not talk to you for a month.

[Asker]

But if u really liked someone you wouldn't go a month without talking to them!!

[Clappy]

I've had friends treat girls they like, like complete shit because they heard that girls are into bad boys. It worked, but not the most optimal way to deal with things. This not talking to you for a month thing is extreme, but far from feasible considering the stunts I've seen doods pull to get with girls.

[Asker]

Tbh it's making me go off him even more, I think it shows that I don't mean much to him

[Hrothgar]

Who sent the last message? If he did, then he's patiently waiting for you to respond, maybe wondering why you didn't but not acting like a needy boy.

If you want to talk to someone, don't sit on your hands and wait for them: take what you want or you'll never get anything out of life.

[Live_And_Learn]

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[Live_And_Learn]

He's either not into you or is waiting for you to say something.

[knotme]

What type of questions does he ask your friend?

[Asker]

He is interested in my business for some reason, like when I had an argument he asked her about it and kept asking on several occasions. And he even claims we have spoken when we haven't, not sure why...

[knotme]

Confusing, but if he hasn't contacted you in a month. It would indicate he is not interested

[internet_guy]

not intrested