I was told that i was too picky and insensitive because I'm only attracted to girls under 130 pounds. I know, There are girls over 130 pounds that could make me happy.
Is it unrealistic to want a Girl under 130 pounds?
And blond hair too!
Yeah, you are picky. No, it's not unrealistic. You're just gonna have really, really hard times finding a girl that meets these criteria AND is emotionally and intelectually compatible with you.
PS I don't see how you can be actually attracted to weight. It looks different depending on height! At 5'9" and 140 lbs I look skinnier than most of my 5'5" friends, and yet they weigh less.
Depends on what you want out of life. DO you want 130 lbs no matter the personality, values, morals, education, etc? Or do you want to find someone who shares your values, goals, interests, will be a good wife and/or mother and a great life companion?
Not saying you can't find someone who can be both, but you may be losing out on the opportunity to meet/find the person who can be.
You are picky about wanting a girl to be at or less than 130 but it isn't unrealistic. Girls can be 130 and have different body types, they can be taller, smaller, thinner, toned or a little thicker so don't expect it to be one type of body shape, size, etc. on a girl.
You can like any kind of girl you want. Lots of girls are under 130 so you aren't seriously limiting your choices. Glancing at the BMI index you are basically talking about someone around 5'4" or less and normal weight. For a girl 5 feet tall 130 is overweight.
I like how most of the women on here say you're picky knowing that they wouldn't date anyone that they weren't physically attracted to. I know that about 98% of them on here wouldn't date a guy that was obese.
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Actual weight is something you very rarely hear as criteria. It's just a bit stupid because the relative weight depends on so many factors. Height, bone density, muscle mass...
It's a weird thing to care about.
130 lbs is not unrealistic for most girls, it's fat for some and way to think for others
While it is ok.. and there are lots of us around...
I think you shouldn't key on the number..
Look at the height and build.. if you like someone with the right look.. but they happen to be 135.. is that the end of the world? no...
Its definitely okay to have preferences, after all we can't really help who we are attracted to. Me, personally? I don't find myself attracted to super skinny guys, I like guys who are a little bulky/have muscle. And usually don't like blond guys, more brown hair dudes. If you were to ask me why, I'd have no idea...thats just what I'm into.
No it's not unrealistic at least no more than a woman wanting a guy over 6 feet. It's fine right up to the point that you start complaining that your dating pool is small. When, like the women who choose height restrictions, you CHOSE to make your dating pool unnecessarily smaller.
Also how exactly does one check this? Do you carry around a scale with you? 😆😆😆
If you said "hey man, I just don't want to date a fat girl". That would be one thing and I'd understand it. But a standard of no one over 130lbs. Is oddly too specific.
You're quite picky. I hope you want a short girl bc if you want a girl that's tallish, then anything under 130 pounds would mean that she's anorexic. I'm 4'11". and I'm 102 pounds, so like if you want a short girl then that's realistic.
Uh.. I think what you want is well-proportioned, not under a specific weight.
As for hair colour, then.. any girl can dye their hair (if they so wish).
well as a girl who’s almost 5’9 and 130 pounds exactly, i think guys like you who don’t seem to understand that weight is in proportion to height. if i lost 5 pounds or more i’d b underweight. so i think for me the expectation is fairly unrealistic but if u want to date a short girl then ig that’s a different case. i just think it’s stupid to put a number on it, but to each their own ig, a bit shallow but u like what u like. i just think it’s expectations like this that pushes girls to eating disorders and body dysmorphia, healthy weight is better in my opinion.
i find it funny how women think it is ok for them to go for a guy based on height and weight but then slate men who do the same. Pathetic double standards. Most women answered that you were unrealistic whilst saying they prefer a guy who is taller and heavier then them.
Not unrealistic, but I wouldn't judge based on weight as much as how the person looks. You will find athletic girls look smaller than they weigh. If the number is what you're all about, then that is your right.
It should matter how it looks on her. A short 130 lb. Girl would look way different than a tall 130lb girl.
I'm 5'8'' and 138 and I'm just skin and bones.
It is fine to have your preferences but some girls are under 130 but look bigger and there are girls over 130 that look smaller. So it might be hard to perfectly match what you want.
You have your preferences and that's fine, there are plenty of girls 130 and under :) It's not being picky, you can't help what you're attracted to and bigger women have their followers too lol.
Unrealistic no there's plenty of girls under 130 even girls on GAG said they were under 130.
But you are being somewhat of a jerk for not giving girls over 129 and up a chance but hey you like what you like.
Some girls will think they are fat even if they weigh less then 130. I weigh way more than 130 and it makes me annoyed to see girls that have dream bodies and they say they weigh as much as I do and I look bad. For someone who is rejected and made fun of it can be annoying
You are not too picky or insensitive. Be honest with what you like and go for it! Ignore the negative comments. Everyone is entitled to their preferences and be happy.
130 and healthy looking is fine. but taller girls 130 would look unhealthy. it all depends on a girls height :)
Is it because you're short and skinny, so you don't want the girl to be heavier than you?
No, it's not unrealistic. Plenty of girls weigh 130 or less. But were you asking if it's realistic, or appropriate/too picky? I think there's a big enough difference between those two.
Your choice. The question is: will these girls want someone like you? Realistically, physically speaking?
Why restrict yourself? And do you carry a set of scales around?
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