What does it mean when my crush squeezes me while hugging me?

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My mom's best friend of 20+ years has a son who has known me since the day I was born. He's a year and a half older than me, and everyone always says that we're going to get married when we're older.

I'm 14 and he's 15.5

Our families hang out a lot (at least 3 times a week), and usually when we leave or they leave, we give hugs.

Recently, as in the past month, he's lifted me up slightly while hugs me, and has one hand on the small of my back, and the other on my back, but like directly behind my chest.

And when he hugs me, he pushes me into him with both of his hands. What does this mean? Right before he did it to me last night, he needed me to give him advice on how to let a girl know that he was interested anymore, after feeling like he led her on.

Could this be because he's falling for me?

He's also tried touching my butt, told me he's wanted to kiss me, but ever since he found out that I like him, he just keeps on saying he doesn't like me.

Please help me! I need all the help I can get, even if it's not related to my overall question!!

Oh, and also when he hugs me, it hurts my boobs because they push into him. Could he be doing this to feel my boobs against his chest?

Thanks for helping me!!

Oh, and last night I was helping him and his brother clean up their new "house" it's just a mother-in-law unit that they're using as their room, and when we were done & waiting for the floor to dry from mopping, the 3 of us were sitting on the counters. His brother got up & pulled me to the door told me that my crush was going to french kiss me & then walked out. SO I sat there talking to him, but nothing happened. Why?

Also, the one time he's hugged me and hasn't squeezed me, it was kind of a long hug, and then he hugged me a second time, and when he let go he kind of grabbed my hand as he was walking away, and squeezed it. After he said bye to my Mom, he came back and gave me a 3rd hug!
What does it mean when my crush squeezes me while hugging me?
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