Guys: How to seduce you? And make you hard?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is very timid and he doesn't want to go any farther then just making out I'm still a virgin but he isn't we've been dating for 2 years now and I'm a 20 and still a virgin because if him I really try but he just brushes it off I suck on bananas looking at him or I'll change infront of him and he isn't ru into it one time a saw him changing and wow but he is shy I've tried walking half naked around the house dripping stuff down my shirt and having to take it off and I get a lot of compliments on my body like my boobs are really big so is my ass and I think I am a good person but everything I try to do he doesn't notice tell me what turns you on makes your dick hard

[whiteguy]

You seem to have been trying real hard (no pun intended). Try finding a time when you two can be alone for a significant amount of time. Watch a good movie together with little violence or gore. I highly HIGHLY recommend The Illusionist. During the movie cuddle up to him. Once it is over gently ask him if he has ever wanted to have sex, mention that you really want to "make love" with him and that it would make you "very happy". I put those in quotes because it makes it sound like you aren't looking for a quick fuck and that you care about him deeply (I assume you do). Be sure to be quiet and gentle, run your finger on hist chest or his arms. Make him feel safe.

I say these things because he sounds a lot like me, quiet, kind, doesn't want the fast life that society says men want. Be sure that he is as comfortable as he can be and please PLEASE make sure that your time together is not about fucking but about love and passion.

[Asker]

Thank you, the thing is he has already has sex with this girl I knew and she said that he was a jerk yet when I'm with him I see nothing but kindness but I've always thought he isn't attracted to me he will check out other girls sometimes and I get closer to him and he always brushes me off and I have had my share of men wanting to bang me but I feel like he would rather do anything else then be with my intimately

[Action_jackson90]

Um I'm sure everything your doing is making him excited or he's gay. He could be intimidated by you or maybe he doesn't want to take your innocence (sike that is literally every guys dream lol). Honestly you should just ask him why he doesn't want to do anything with you...

[WoIIie]

Maybe you aren't very sexual in doing these things. You kind of just "do them", as if you read it out of a book and applied it, expecting instant, organic results.

Try touching and asking him what he likes about your body.

[Voyeur]

Watching a girl strip is allways a wunner

[McGrad]

simply dirty talk works best for me

[Panzer103]

Better if you ask what wouldn't. A slow striptease ending in bj is unbeatable.

[Anonymous]

A woman's touch, if a woman touches my shoulders, rubs my neck and runs her fingertips through my hair, she sends electric pulse feelings through my body and that usually does the trick. I just love a woman's touch.