My boyfriend wants me to take my shirt and bra off whenever I'm randomly in "the mood." Is this normal?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I were talking and he said that whenever I'm in the mood to get it on, he wants me to take my shirt and bra off. And then he added in, to make sure he's not holding a drink or anything fragile when I do this because he'll drop it once he sees me lol But seeing your gf topless out of nowhere, is that an instant turn on? Is this just his way of getting me to initiate sex?

[Alessus]

Well, it'd be a pretty straightforward signal at least and I think that's what he wants to say. I mean if you are feeling like you are in the mood to feel good, then I guess he just wants to provide you with it. Is that so bad? And never underestimate the power of boobs, because most straight guys agree that they are indeed awesome.

[Mountain8ear]

He is trying to jokeingly tell you what turns him on. He's nervous about how you will respond. The little drink thing, is just his weird way off saying he thinks you are supper sexy. As for the questions, probably yes to all. Have fun, and get him to open up to you more about his wants, it'll be fun for both of you.

[Anonymous]

He's telling you that he wants you to initiates sex when you want it. Probably because it's hard for him to guess and he feels like he's making you do it.

[2ButterflyKiss1]

If you are happy doing this, then why not? Anyway what is normal? Some couples do things that are perfectly normal to them that other couples would never do.

[Anonymous]

Yes, instant turn on. We guys are very visually stimulated.

I agree with anon girl below who said he wants you to initiates sex when you want it. It gets old being the only one in a relationship who initiates and it can make us feel a little insecure.