I've been seeing this guy almost every week for 2 months…Only for casual sex so far though (we both agreed to hook up once and ever since he keeps asking to hang out) Sometimes he's said "What would you do if I never texted you again". But in the end always does. He doesn't really want me texting him first because he's on and off with his ex last time he told me. Anyways, last week before he left he told me "If I'm not too busy next week I'll call…but I might be too busy". We usually hook up on Thursdays, so yesterday morning he asked me if he could come over and I told him no because I have work that night sorry. He asked me when I finished work and that he could pick me up, which I thought was weird for a guy that's only been hooking up with you. He drove 45 mins to pick me up at 10pm from work. I felt like he didn't have to pick me up, he could have just decided to meet up with me later at my place, or call/text the following week instead? In bed I was complimenting his "down there" and asked him if that's the best compliment he's gotten from me. He said "Well maybe.. but something else was even better" so I replied "What's that?" and he said "One time you told me I had nice eyes." Last week he mentioned doing a sleepover one time since we've never done one, and sometimes he likes starting up a conversation in bed about random things. Everytime he leaves it's kind of awkward and he texts me the following week to see me again.
This long term hook up was never intentional in the first place and it can't last forever, right? I haven't been through this kind of hook up situation before. Need advice people!!
This long term hook up was never intentional in the first place and it can't last forever, right? I haven't been through this kind of hook up situation before. Need advice people!!
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