Fiance caught his father checking out my butt.

[Anonymous]

My fiancé is younger than I by 8 years. We are expecting in October. The other day my fiancé caught his father looking at my rear while I was bending over to get something out of the depths of my trunk. My fiancé was standing behind his dad without his dad knowing. I have felt awkward in the beginning of our relationship with how affectionate his father was but back then my fiancé assured me that was how his dad always is. There have been other times I have felt awkward around his dad, like long hugs goodbye with him rubbing my upper to mid back or the way he seems to defend me when the fiancé and I have misunderstandings. Should my fiancé or I think this is inappropriate? My fiancé asked me if he should say anything to his mother and I told him no.

[NaturalTreasure]

Well you are a woman so you should understand this. Judge how important or dependent are you and your just go get a damn marriage registration boyfriend. If you are financially dependent on grandpa then develop thicker skin and more graceful ways of rejecting people.

Causing a divorce or marital problems isn't go to help you or the grandpa.
Women should talk to woman. It's alright to say he is a little over affectionate.
But he hasn't actually done anything wrong. Having a nice butt and looking at is is really normal. Just make sure that when you are around him you find a polite way to say, please respect a married woman personal space. ~ So far you haven't stood up for yourself. And spiting his marriage is dirty dirty play. Call fowl on the field of play, before you attempt to draw coaches onto the field to kick them out. You don't go after the coach, you referee the way the game is played. ~ Are you feeling this?

You husband looks at another woman's butt. Should her husband come tell you?
How is that going to play out between your husband and you when all he did was look?
Don't start fights over stuff that never happened. Just learn to speak up for yourself and tell people leave the field if they pull a red card, and penalty kick, or go back and reset if the come to close or cross half the field without the ball in play. Soccer. Learn the rules. Marriages work better when you learn how to play with etiquette and rules, not jumping on people's team mates, when the ref isn't looking cause you don't like how they play.

Correct the problem. Do not create more problems. ~ I worry about kids like you. And get the license already. You're pregnant, take a taxi to the courthouse pay $40 and you are married, no telling what will happen to the kid, so you two should at least be married as part of how you will remember this time. A simple legal act like this would also do more to make it feel improper to look at you. Currently you are a girlfriend.

[NaturalTreasure]

I gave the best advice offered so far. Who voted it down?

[zombiebabe]

you dad in law seem like one of those creepy old guys... just have a talk with the old man itself.. tell him that you don't like his behaviour towards you
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[CrazyCandy]

That is very inappropriate. You need to yalk to him and tell him to stop

[Anonymous]

Unless you fancy a threesome, you should put a stop to his behavior now