He does value you, he treats your right, right? that means he values you! LOL he's just smart and doesn't wanna get stabbed. Look I understand you want someone that will protect you, and im sure if someone was the threaten to kill you he will turn into superman. But at the sametime, this is all minor things that your looking at. You actually at the end of the day, should have said, to the guy that grabbed your ass, you buddy, f off or ill have my bf kick your ass and put you in jail. LOL
If you want a guy that's all macho and oh don't touch my shit, just make sure that one day he doesn't touch you the wrong way.. I've seen girls like you leave a lot of good people, to only get beaten later on in life with something that they thought was a "real" man. lol
Anyways, just chill. You gotta more so enjoy the good person you have. Instead of find reasons to walk away.
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He doesn't need to fight, but at least something. I couldn't imagine letting my gf be grabbed by any passerby. A lot of betas answering on this rofl.
Go take martial arts or kickboxing or something and learn how to protect yourself. Honestly, that's kind of a shallow thing to care about and he probably wants a gf who thinks he is a "real" man the way he is.
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He's probably never been in a fight. Or maybe the guy was a lot bigger? Either way he shouldn't have let that slide. He should have said something to the guy. Getting beaten up would hurt less than hurt pride. A guy should always fight if it comes to that. If that was me and I knew I didn't stand a chance, I would have thrown a bottle or chair right away then gotten kicked out lol. Beats getting mashed into pulp I bet
These kinds of situations need to be handled carefully. On one hand you would like him to at least step up a little, if only to tell the guy to back off. On the other hand, it can have dire consequences.
I also know instances where the guy's face got turned into hamburger. Unfortunately in real life, the good guy doesn't always win.Listen to what I'm telling you. Someone I know was killed for retaliation on some guy who touched his girl. He was actually stabbed at a club and died leaving a pregnant girlfriend behind. And I know another guy who was shot at. Usually a person who grabs a girls ass in public is shameless and cares about nothing. Would it make you happy If he was beatened or hurt over you huh? Would that be a more manly thing to do?
he probs shud have done something but these things can easily turn into a fight and do you want your boyfriend bottled or stabbed?
Bruised ribs hurt a lot less than bruised pride, everytime.
It's not worth getting in a fist fight over a woman.
tell him that
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