Every time I talk this girl my mind goes blank?

[Anonymous]

Every time I talk to this girl I get nervous for like a second and then I go into what feels like a subconscious state where I can't think about anything that I wanted to tell her/ ask her about and I can barely remember anything that happened. I just go with what she saying and make conversation, but the things I constantly think about always seem to slip my mind. Those who are familiar with MBTI I am an INTP so I'm constantly thinking and I also have a photographic memory. So I don't know why this happens around her.

[eshka]

omg this is so cute! You obviously like her a lot! I'd say try practicing but then you'd be acting like those guys from tv shows who practice what they're gonna say to a girl, when you see her just bring up 'how are you' or 'how was your day?' asking her will obviously get her to answer you, but it'll also let you make conversation along, after you ask her something compliment her make? Or bring up another question like, example if she says her day was great, and she doesn't give you the deets ask her why it's a great day or simply just go along with her. If you notice her smiling and looking into your eyes a lot and I mean A LOT that means she likes you or likes to have conversations with you. Don't let her do all the talking though, she'll feel like you aren't interested in asking or saying much! Good luck (:

[Anonymous]

Oh god that sucks so beautifully.
I get you. I think a lot, to the point where I overanalyze the simplest of things. I always have something to say, but I also have this crush. Whenever I see him, I kinda get nervous for a second or two... But then I just go blank. I forget how to be human or something. My mind is completely quiet and I can't function properly. I can't really say anything, just respond. Afterwards I'm left with a racing heartbeat, nerves and a little distraught.
I really don't know why this happens. I'd like to assume it's just the body's reaction to nerves, but I don't know.
—INTJ :)

[I_luv_romance]

U sir are at the behing point of falling in love 😝

[Anonymous]

Yep. I have experienced this too. I believe it is the result of being extremely excited to see her and your brain releases all sorts of chemicals that confuse you.

I remember when I was a teenager I had a real crush on a woman in our town. She was almost old enough to be my mother, but to me she was just amazing. Every time I saw her, my palms would go sweaty, my mouth would go dry, my heart would pound like it wanted to burst out of my chest and I would completely forget what I was doing. I actually fell off my bike one day in the middle of the high street because I saw her.

[abundantlyrich]

She stuns you and her beauty overpowers your mind to speak.

[Beautifulhedcase]

You just really like her!!!

[TheNewClassic]

You probably like her

[Asker]

I like her a lot, but I forget about telling her every time I see her. I ask her to come to some of my shows cause I'm in a band, but most are too far away. She might actually come to one tomorrow. I did hang out with her last week though and she flirted a little but, it was subtle since I don't think she wants my sister to know she likes me or is interested. She does/did have a boyfriend which I found out about when we hung out and it didn't bother me until I left. Then I became depressed for a few days.