"Is a "brother" a guy on whom she can rely, a guy that can be trusted and who can resolve problems, but he is not an option for sex?"
Yes. That's exactly what it is. Not just sex, but anything you would consider part of a normal relationship with a girl. Just think of brother literally and that gives the idea.
Saying you are like a brother is even worse than being friend zoned. It's hard to get out of the friend zone. It's just about impossible to get out of the brother zone.
Not sure why she is annoyed when you talk about another girl. It might be for the reason you said. She wants you for herself, but as a brother. It might also be that you aren't really a brother like she says and she's totally sending mixed signals. I would NOT stake your hopes on that though. You need to take her at her word that she doesn't want to date you.
Sorry to say it, but time to move on. You can waste years of your life waiting for her because of a 0.0001% chance that she might come around. Find someone who can return your love.
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If she sees you as a brother and only that, any chances of coming out of that are slim to none.
if she says she sees you only as a brother then I doubt you will ever be in a relationship but she may just be confused about what she really wants. She could be just using you for her own gain. If I were you I would stay away for a while and see if she comes back and if so tell her that things need to change.
I don't think you can get out of the 'brother' zone any more than you can get out of the 'friend' zone, sorry.
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