Guys, what are some of your insecurities?

[Anonymous]

As a girl, I know we have a million and one. What are some of a guy's insecurities? Do guy's even have many insecurities?

[Anonymous]

Let's see if I can get a list going...

Short (5'6'')
Look really young (19, look 15)
Small feet (8.5)
Skinny ankles
Have a speech impediment of saying "um" whenever I start a sentence with someone I don't know
Small hands
I don't like how my hair sits
I hate my voice
Fear that I have made all the wrong decisions in life
Worry that I have seen the love of my life but am too shy to ever meat her
Hate how overly logical I am
can't deal with my emotions
Stay up at night sometimes because I know that the only thing that matters in my life is something I may never find
Insecure that at 19 years old my goal in life is to be a husband

And last but not least, whenever a car is behind me for more than 3 minutes I start to freak out and think that I pissed the driver off somehow.

[Opinion Owner]

I am also weirdly unresponsive to physical threats, I don't know why but my voice doesn't even change pitch. Always felt odd about that.

[DreamHope]

I can relate to so many of those insecurities...
Here's my own version of your list:
Short (5"2)
Look young (20 but look 12-15)
Tend to say "um" when nervous
My voice is often too soft to be heard
Too shy to start a conversation with the guy I think I'm in love with
Fear that I won't find true love
I totally relate to the car thing!

[Asker]

I honestly didn't know guys were insecure about things like this. As girls, we are insecure of so many of the same things.

[Opinion Owner]

We just grow up being told that as a guy it is our job to pretend we aren't insecure about anything.

[Opinion Owner]

Hell, if I were asked this face to face my answer would be "I don't know, I don't really care what other people think about me"

[Asker]

Thank you for answering honestly. :)

[epiman94]

Yes guys have insecurities! Do we hide it that well? I am insecure about my appearance (body: I am very thin, but don't like my body. I never take my shirt off. I rarely were shorts because I have really hairy legs and people always comment on them. My beard doesn't come up high enough on my cheeks. I have big lips-and I am a guy.).
Personality ( I think often I annoy people around me. I am too shy when it matters. People pass me off as the nice friend. I seem "sheltered". Awkward.)
Skills: I suck at guitar. The other bassists are better. My voice sucks. I can't draw, can't dance, don't know karate. And I am not even a good swimmer. I never played any sports.

You know. To name a few. We are all human. We have insecurities. Thanks for posting this question. Its kinda nice to get these out there.

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer! So guys are just humans like us after all :)

[epiman94]

Yeah, we are I guess!

[AnimeDreama]

1. I'm terrified of thunderstorms, so I freak out, no matter how small it is.

2. I can't speak right. I stutter and fumble when I talk, so it makes public speaking terrifying for me.

3. I'm scared of opening up to people. Normally, I am pretty open with people I know, but that doesn't mean I'm not scared of doing it.

4. That my girlfriend will stop loving me and leave me for somebody else. This is my biggest insecurity, and it has kept me up many nights.

5. That I will never be accepted for who I am.

6. That I will never make my dream come true.

[RandomStudent]

Minor acne, upper cheek bones don't stand out enough, my arms are too skinny, lacking abs, not strong enough, not rich enough, too pale, ect.

[Anonymous]

I don't have insecurities, why because insecurities comes from caring what other people think of you. If you don;t care what other people think of you, you won't have insecurities. Be confident and happy with your body, cause dam nobody else will.

[Opinion Owner]

why do children don't have insecurities, same reason, is because they don't care what people think of them, they run round the house naked. So have confidence like a child. Thats a fact.

[Asker]

So basically, act like a child?

[lucyford]

so you're trying to say that you never once in your life have ever felt insecure...

[Opinion Owner]

yes once my life did feel insecure. But not anymore. No be confident like child. A child doesn't care he/she gets naked in front of 30 people on beach. By being insecure about who are and your body, it won't allow you to express, yourself in a true geniune way. Your basically acting in a way in which people think of you, and not your true self.

[Opinion Owner]

We all have become so insecure because we have being so brainwashed, by society, celebrities, media, into feeling and thinking a certain way about yourself. Basically if your boobs, or legs don't match up to a certain celebs body, it will make feel rubbish about your body. because every guy in the school likes the celebs body, and then bang, you immediately feel insecure about your boobs. The trust is, you have brainwashed, into feeling bad about your body. Thats a fact.

[Opinion Owner]

This what most men can't undestand women liking confidence in a man. Its simple confidence is a magical quality which attracts people to you. A confident man, brings the best out of his girlfiriend. A insecure man, brings the worst out of his girlfriend. Your confidence, helps others to feel liberated.

[NateScott]

I get really insecure about how my hair looks, how my breath smells, how I smell, etc. A lot of the same things as girls. The difference is that though only get to me if I allow them to. A small dose of anxiety can be good sometimes.

[bumblebritches5]

Why would we ever tell you that? all you could possibly use that info is to hurt us, why did you even waste your time asking this? you're not going to get any answers...

[Asker]

I don't think it's in the intention of a normal girl to hurt you with your insecurities. That's just cruel.

[bumblebritches5]

I don't know about that...

[Ihav2fart]

I used to be insecure about my penis size because I am Asian and I have that stereotype. I got over it once I found out I am more than fine for my height.

[TheEnding]

I'm really skinny. My appearance in general, I'm extremely insecure about. Also very emotional and much too scared to approach girls.

[Anonymous]

to be honest I wish I had insecurities. I don't have any what so ever.

[Asker]

Sucks to be you

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry I really don't have any. I used to be filled of so many insecurities like height, accent, looks, acne, & weight. but I made everything perfect, I hit the gym became athletic and muscular (not too much), my face cleared up even though I have a few scars and now I look like a male cover model, I used to be short and fat but I grew tall, and people find my accent in all languages I speak to be wonderful.

If you're insecure about yourself then DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. sitting on your ass and feeling sorry for yourself is not ok, there are a lot of people in a worse position than you and they are working every moment to get better, be faster, stronger, and smarter. take responsibility for yourself and make yourself better.

[Anonymous]

my penis is a grower not a shower. when its hard it's pretty normal range 5.5 inches, but when its soft it can be pretty small

[Koldhearted]

Short, skinny, feminine bone structure

[Anonymous]

Residing hairline.