I don't see how guys can ask for these. I either recieve them from the person because they want to send them or I don't get any. Besides, somthing should be left to the imagination and as anticipation. If I already know what i'm getting into then the first time I would do anything with that person it would not be quite as fun.
I've never sent a nude of myself. Shirtless, never a nude.
At most I would go down to (in your position) bra and panties.
But if you still feel uncomfortable just tell him "no" and if he cares about you in the slightest (imo) then he won't care. But I'm a people pleaser, so maybe thats just me.
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don't be like those bitches who's less then 18 years old and think is hot as a 22 fit girl, and send nude photos to anyone who request it. Just say no to that sh*tty bf of yours. I have a friend which was threatened by her own boyfriend saying that he would end their relation if she didn't give him a blowjob. the bitch friend of mine is with him until today, so yeah, ya know what decision she took
say no dear. this is it
peace
Just say you aren't comfortable with them.
You don't know what he's going to do with them. You also don't know who is going to go through his phone. What if his parents see them? If he's pressuring you, you might want to consider dumping him. It's sort of sexual harassment.
Also, if you're under the age of 18 any nude picture is child pornography. If you get caught you could get charged with distribution of child P*rnography and it could go on your record. That's kind of a big thing that no one really thinks about.
All you have to say is no. If he gets mad at you or breaks up with you because you didn't send him nudes, then he obviously did not care to get to know you for you, just your body. It's your body, you decide what gets shown or touched. Nobody else. Don't feel bad if you don't send nudes. It's your decision. But, please be careful if you do send them, because there's a chance that they will get sent to different people or shown to others.
If you can't say no to something like nude pics then somewhere there's underlying issues because no one should hold the authority but you. If you let other people control you then it's a big problem and you should seek professional help. I mean, one day it's nude pics, next day it's guys asking for sex and what will you do then? If you don't learn to stand your ground it will only get worse and worse. Say no and stick to it.
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Usually when someone insists I do something (especially sexual) i get even more stubborn and don't do it. Why would you feel bad about it? Are you afraid of losing him? Because if he dumps you for that he wasn't a good guy at first place. I would never send a nude pic. Most certainly he would show it to his friends.
ok here it goes...
DONT EVER SEND NUDES TO ANY GUY OR ANYBODY ELSE, EVEN IF HE IS YOUR BF OR EVEN IF YOU THINK HE IS A NICE GUY, DONT EVER SEND NUDES EVER...
its never trusting thing to do, you never know were they might endup oneday... you will regrete it either way,...You tell him "no". It's pretty simple, and you're technically committing a crime (As is he). Learn to stand up for yourself. No relationship is worth keeping that you have to keep going by giving up your morals.
Tell him that you feel uncomfortable with it. You clearly realize that once it's out there, it's out there, and there's nothing stopping anyone from seeing them.
Just tell them you don't want to be used for your body and if the stop talking to you there obviously not worth it ! :) hope this helps
Once its out there - its out there for good. Email/texting is not air tight. Even if he doesn't share - they can be captured. You can be seductive with your clothes on. Stick to things that are no worse than a bikini.
Simply say "No." dont explain why your saying no, just say no!
"if I'm talking to a 'random' guy" ? lol. I just say you can see em in person.
Just say no, just flatly say no, he can't do anything about this, you won't get hurt or anything.
Your under 18, you shouldn't be sending nudes to anyone.
Don't send nudes to strangers. Even your bf. If he's so desperate, he can see you in person.
It's easy, you tell him "No"
By saying no I'm not comfortable
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