My boyfriend texts his female friend frequently (daily) and this makes me uncomfortable?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so in this era yeah we are all so hooked up on facabook, whatsapp and etc. The point is, I have been dating my boyfriend about 6 months now and everything is perfectly fine. However, in the beginning I did notice that he was close to a few females and one in particular. However I thought it was perfectly normal as we all have friends of the opposite sex.

After knowing him for almost 9 months now... I noticed that he is very close to that one girl in particular ; like they whatsapp each other like everyday, every morning and how do I know this? well every single time we go dating, I see her name flashes on his screen (whatsapp) and I just don't understand why he has to reply her while he is on a date with ME!

I don't get to see him often, and if it was my friend who texted me I would definitely tell my friend I'm out with my boyfriend and i'll get back to her/him later.

His female friend does not know he has a gf (me) because we think it's still early to let everyone know that we are a couple. We want to keep it low for the time being. and this is a decision we both made.

The thing is, he treats me really well and I do know that I am his priority,, but my ex cheated on me and I don't know if it's because of him or what that I feel a little insecure about this.

Is it normal for a guy to text his female friend everyday eventhough he already has a gf? nowadays everytime I think of whatsapping him, i also think if he's msging her, talking to her etc... and I DON'T WANT TO BE LIKE THIS!

Should I be worried about this? Am i being paranoid? i love my guy a lot and I don't want to be one of those dominating annoying girls out there, but this thing is really bothering me!
I really need help :(

[chuckyegg]

I found out my ex the other day had moved on, and is now with the guy that was just a "good friend" since she broke up with the 2 months ago pretty much immediately after the breakup. She used to go on dates with him to restaurants, and had planned to visit him in Malaysia, but I didn't need to be worried as they were just "friends." She emotionally cheated on me with him.

Tell him to stop, or lose you. That is definitely not normal behaviour for friends. Friends talk to each other once every few days.

Cheating can be emotional as well as physical, and it sounds like he is cheating.

[Kaynetime]

Well, ask him to put his phone away while he's on a date with you. It's rude no matter what. I text my friend/skype my friends every day so I wouldn't worry about that but it is possible she like him. Don't fret, he's chosing you after all and having more than 1 girl like you at once feels really good. You may want to consider if a traditional relationship is necessary. You could gain a lot if you invite her to join you two. Think about it.

[Love-to-love-you]

Personally, I think it's unlikely that two people of the opposite sex can be good friends without one or both eventually falling for each other.. Either emotionally or lustfully.. But you are only still a short-lived couple, you haven't made your relationship official yet, perhaps when you have made it official then maybe it will be a small issue then. I'd be uncomfortable if my guy texted other girls during our time together too.

[Anonymous]

My best guy friend texts me daily. When he started dating the gf I tried backing off, respect. But he texts me first usually. I'm assuming she hates this. I know I would.

we've always said nothing would come between our friendship though

[martyfellow]

These days it's common to be replying to messages ALL THE TIME but it sows you aren't really his priority yet. You, re just another 'friend.'

[Anonymous]

I don't know. Six months and you're still keeping this on the down low?

Man, my friends know about any girl I'm dating within a week. What's the point in hiding it?