Introverted guys how long can you have a crush on a girl without making a move?

[kindgirl21]

So I like a guy. He stares, smiles, teases, touched my hand and got all nervous, looked then looked away when he saw me from afar.

He seems shy around me but does talk and ask how I am. I always see him where he works and he takes little things like me not saying thanks after buying something to heart. I am shy so I did apologise. Then he was fine and smiled at me. He always says bye too. Other times he sings when I am at counter, stops talking. in. convo with others when I arrive and pays me allattention.

He does seem. confident but not with making a move. I have shown little bit of. interest. I smile look in his eyes. i dont pull back when he held. onto my hand. We are like two awkward lemons together. I will stand and wait for. my top up and when he gives me. he is grinning and I am. too but I can see its like hewants to but something stops him or I have not given the impression that I am into him.

Its been going on 4 months I tried to suck it upand give my number yday but I got so nervous I couldnt.

[Dapperthecat]

One little tip, being introverted doesn't mean that we are shy. "Introversion is not the same thing as shyness but it is often mistaken as such by extraverts. Introverts prefer solitary to social activities, but do not fear social encounters like shy people do." He probably is more of a person that fears rejection especially in front of his friends. Introverts tend to be much better around close friends or in one-on-one scenarios. You need to try and make it into his social circle if you want to progress or get to know him.

Try to establish yourself as more then a customer-worker one and get his phone number or ask him out. You might be an awkward lemon around him, but he might never make a move. So, decide what you want. Do you want to get to know this guy that you seem to like or just be the girl that orders from his store that he sees in passing that is kinda cute, but he doesn't understand.

[kindgirl21]

Yeah I agree. i will have to go for it otherwise he will see me as just a customer your right. Thank you he clearly does not know I like him which is my fault.

[Dapperthecat]

He may or may not know that you like him. The problem is that a lot of people are confident and understand the signals, and there are also a lot of people that are oblivious to them. I will only go off of what you say or express to me, because so often I have misread body signals.

[kindgirl21]

Yeah I agree

[Retsul15]

Literally forever. After four months, it is clear he needs you to make the first move. It's not a sign of his weakness, but we introverts can be REALLY shy.

[kindgirl21]

Yeah I agree with you. I find him even more cuter that he's shy. I will do. I do not think its sign of weakness I think its better that he's not full on with me as those type of guys just seem to be players and just after sex. It makes him look more like a man not a vulture lol. He cares what impression he makes

[dupe666]

Some guys are just so afraid and insecure, they'll never make a move. They're like girls. =/
I had a crush on one for years. I am the same way so you can imagine how that stupid little interaction looked.

Your best bet with a guy like that is to become his best friend. Get him so close to you, that romantic initiative erupts spontaneously. I was too shy to, but you seem like a brave girl. I say do your best. ^.^

[kindgirl21]

I am the same too but I've learnt to not let my fear control me and I do not want regrets so I will try my best. I know its not easy for him I admire him for not making a bad impression on me and for caring what I think. i force myself to be brave lol. Confidence is key even if you fake it a bit.

[kindgirl21]

I downvoted by accident sorry damn touchscreen phones lol

[Corsair777]

Days/Months/Years - Depends on the girl.
Some guys will NEVER escalate with you, know this. They will either learn in time to do it (years usually), or will jump onto an OBVIOUS (albeit probably suggestive) signal, like arm stroking or eye contact w/ lip licking.

[kindgirl21]

I just get creeps with no fear coming to me grr not thw guy. i actually like a lot

[Prof_Don]

A guy like can go on FOREVER without making a move.

Pretty much... doing precisely what YOU are doing with him as well.

[kindgirl21]

What do you mean doing precisely what I am. doing? Is he afraid of me. or the response

[Prof_Don]

You're saying he is too shy to make a move.

You're too shy to make a move.

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Are u willing to make the first bold move to break this cycle, or are u going to allow this to continue and get absolutely nowhere?

[kindgirl21]

I see bit wouldn't it make him feel less. of a man?

[Prof_Don]

Actually no... it would make him feel better about himself that a girl approached him!

[kindgirl21]

Really. Did not want to scare him. or be too forward lol he might think. i am desperate

[man25]

You should stay on the counter for a bit more time. And do pass some signs to make him feel comfortable like looking into his eyes with a smile on your face or maybe greeting him morning or evening.

[kindgirl21]

What if there's customers and I have wanted too I dd linger on longer at counter then I felt in the way lol. I will I can tell he is not comfy yet. I will try to lol

[AdamThomas]

Sounds like he's at work? You're gonna have to leave your number for him. Probably doesn't wanna risk getting fired.

[kindgirl21]

I know. Yeah I get that. An thats why I have not forgotten him as if he was out of workplace then would be no reason why he could not talk. However yesterday I saw him outside of his work but I had my nephew with me so I couldnt get to chat but he did stare at me

[Shyguy_1988]

Yea, for a long time. Unless you make huge hints you are interested, hard to get doesn't work to well with introverted guys. I am getting more bold as I get older but its a slow moving process.

[kindgirl21]

Yeah I see thank you :)

[Dandeus]

Introverted guys will crush on a girl until they get bored and start crushing on another girl.

[VegasRollin]

F. O. R. E. V. E. R.

[kindgirl21]

Awh nooo lol havent. got that long haha

[VegasRollin]

Unfortunately based on your explanation of this guy, you're going to have to make that first big move.

[kindgirl21]

Oh god im petrified lol haha what would I say or do

[VegasRollin]

Just give him your number and tell him you would like to take it further. If he's interested he'll call you or at least text.

[kindgirl21]

Ok I will do thanks