Why do men get upset when their girlfriends wear revealing clothing?

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Okay, so my boyfriend and I are not on good terms right now, because in my eyes, he's being really stupid.

So I went to a club last night, which is a rarity for me. And before I left I Snapchatted my boyfriend a pic of me saying, "I'm going out tonight. :)" and I was wearing that dress that I posted a picture on here of. And he texted me saying, "wow, that's fucked up" and I replied, "I think you're fucked up." And then he responded almost instantaneously, "going out looking like that is fucked up." I guess I should also mention that before this we had a little mini fight earlier that day, because I might be pregnant and he's not super thrilled about that.

And it really upset me, because he usually let's me wear whatever I want and do whatever I want without being controlling or getting upset. So I said, "Oh, sorry, DAD. I didn't know you all of a sudden had authority over me. You have no problem with me dressing like a slut when we go out." And he said that it was okay for me to dress like that when we're together.

... Seriously?

But anyway, I still went out and I wore the dress and I had a great time, and I texted him when I got home at like 3AM, "You're probably asleep, but I want you to know that I'm home and I'm safe. And I didn't get raped. Goodnight. :*" And I think he's pissed cus he hasn't texted me back, but I don't care, because I don't think I should have to dress a certain way when I'm not with him.

Why do you think he said this? Do you think that he might have thought I would cheat on him? I think that's why I was so upset, because I feel like he doesn't trust me enough to know that I would never cheat on anyone ever, not just him. Also, do you think his behavior is fair?
Why do men get upset when their girlfriends wear revealing clothing?
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