Well, if you are unable to reply or greet him in return when he speaks to you, then he may be under the assumption that you are, in fact, ignoring him. I mean, seriously, no one wants to repeatedly initiate a conversation with another who does not speak back or, at least, give back a reciprocal sign of interest.
As the other guy said, "he is attracted to you", and he prefers to converse with you more, but you, unknowingly, make it difficult for him to show it, via your lack of response, without giving him the impression that he is being rejected by you.
With that in mind, if you are incapable of speech when he attempts to speaks to you, then smile, wave, and make eye contact. In other words, project positive body language. Your body language, believe or not, can clearly convey whatever is on your mind. Also, check guy out here and there, and allow him to notice you noticing him.
Now, if you really want immediate results, I suggest that you find an effective manner of conveying your shy nature to him, so that he better understands your lack of responses with him.
By the way, when stressed, chew gum. It instantaneously relieves anxiety.
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This happened to me but it was a woman I didn't know very well and all the verbal/non verbal signs said she was not comfortable around me so I looked elsewhere even after I tried quite a few times.
By the time she initiated/opened up more I could see she was crushing and really shy but I couldn't start anything so it fell to pieces.
Next time make sure a guy can tell you are shy and he'll persist.
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Maybe you're one of those mythical beings that turns people to stone if they make eye contact with you?
Do you have snakes for hair by any chance?Who are you if you don't mind me asking? I believe it's me you're writing about, me is hoping anyhow.
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