Broad Shoulders on a girl?

[Anonymous]

It's kinda my one insecurity and one I can do nothing about. I just have kinda broad shoulders. Broader than some guys even. Big boobs on top of that and it just makes me look very top heavy and masculine.
I used to cry about it but now I'm usually fine with it. It's just sometimes someone points it out saying I got have big shoulders "athletic" shoulders. Which I guess is kinda true I think I did get them from rowing and swimming growing up. But it just hurts every time someone does that

I try to be as fat-less as possible because when I do gain weight I gain it first on my upper body. My boobs but also my shoulder and back.
So I'm thin but my shoulder are very broad compared to my hips. Like this

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And I've never had a boyfriend either, even though I would have wanted to. So I don't know I guess what I'm wondering is, is that look to masculine for most guys?
Is it attractive at all?

[cupcake0101]

I also have them from swimming and rowing :-) ) !!
You should embrace what you have! I get asked by a lot of men, wow, you got wide shoulders, I take it as a compliment, rather than an insult. I think they seem (the ones who talk to me about it) rather impressed about such a strong looking woman.
My ex always told me I should stop working out, it's not nice on a woman, but as you can see, he is my ex now :-D

[Asker]

Idk, I can't take it as a compliment. A lot of guys also say that as kinda a compliment, like they're impressed but I can't take it as such.
It's more like they want to have those should but they wouldn't want to date a girl who does

[cupcake0101]

Perhaps it comes with age (on men and women) that we start to accept what we can't change. I have always been bothered by my thunder thighs. But instead on focusing on those negativities, you should try to hear the compliments people give about other parts (because that is the parts they notice), like your beautiful eyes, skin etc.

[BehindTheFront]

This isn't unattractive. You Just have to wear shirts that don't underline those shoulders. Try to find clothes which minimize your waist but emphasize your hips, just to balance your top.

anyway, that is one physical feature, we all have ones that please or bother us. Don't cry because of it

[Anonymous]

I have broad shoulders too... (I've got no helpful opinion sorry)

[Asker]

are you happy with it?

[truthbeknown]

I actually find that very attractive. I don't like petite women. Broad shoulders definitely makes you more athletic and strong looking. I understand that may not be the look you are going for. I can see how guys would find that intimidating or make them feel inferior. But trust me, there are lots of guys that do like that too!

[Asker]

Why do you find it attractive? Don't you see it as masculine?

[truthbeknown]

No, I see it as strength, stability and healthiness. It has nothing to do with my perception of femininity. I get that from your facial features, boobs, long hair, sexy legs and butt. Honestly, I see a woman with broad shoulders I think we would have good strong healthy kids together!

[Asker]

Ok, thanks

[sunlight90]

No, as long as you are in good health that is fine. Bone structure is genetically determined, so don't worry about endocrine issues or low estrogen levels.

[Andy1970guy]

Broad Shoulders are sexy on a woman. Embrace them and be confident. Not every guy will like them, some guys like big butts, some guys like big boobs, some guys like small boobs. Some guys like tall women, some guys like short girls. Elle McPherson was one of the series models of all time and she had big shoulders.

[rUinSAYAN]

as long as you are in a good shape and your behavior/treats are not manly, it will be ok ;)