Should you hangout with a girl everyday?

[Anonymous]

Like if you like someone, would you hangout with them everyday? She asks to hangout everyday and I feel like thats not going to work in my favor in the long run. Quick way to being friendzoned if too available or am I thinking too much?

[Laurenelisej]

Unless you're soul mates, hanging out everyday will get boring quick. You'll start to get annoyed with each other and you might even lose your identity in her. Hang out with your friends sometimes and be alone sometimes. If she has a problem with that, she's obviously the controlling type and in that case you should run.

[Asker]

I do hangout with friends but she's hella sensative (she won't admit it tho). So when she calls I try to make time.

[CrazynKinky]

This annoys me so much. Do you want to see her then yes you should hang out everyday. People need to stop following stupid rules. Like you can only hang out with someone so much. She wants to hang out so clearly she thinks your important.

[Asker]

I mean I like her but she is also seeing somebody at the moment. I don't want her to get the idea that she can just use me for attention when her guy friend isn't around. If I find out thats the case the friendshiip is over

[CrazynKinky]

How is it using you if your friends like sometimes I see my friends everyday some times I see them once every two months if you know she's seeing someone your friends and thats what friends do.

[Asker]

ehhh there's a bit more to it lol. She knows I like her already, cuz I told her already. She says I like you but we want different things n im seein someone. Now why would u want to hang with someone that wants more but you don't?

[Asker]

I wouldn't want to be around someone I dont share feelings for. The friendship would seem strained n forced

[523206720]

I don't know why guys are s afraid of getting in the friend zone. I would only be interested in dating my friends. To me a boyfriend should be a very very close friend - not some random guy I'm attracted to.

[Asker]

Because that area usually means no sex zone

[BertMacklinFBI]

no not everyday because you should have your own personal schedule and things you have to do also. if you're so available all the time then that just says something about you:P where are you hobbies and responsibilities? ya know?

[Asker]

Yeah but college just started up, so nothing right now except for coolin it with friends. I don't party like that, never gave a shit about it much. I am trying to find a job though.

[BertMacklinFBI]

job is always an awesome way to go! good to be making money:D

[mrsfeathers]

Absolutely not. Have a life, she will notice that you have nothing else keeping you busy and you'll be bored quick

[Asker]

I have a life, I just make time for her to be nice

[mrsfeathers]

I'm not saying you don't I'm saying it looks to her like you don't. Plus doing other stuff will give you some stuff to talk about !

[Anonymous]

as a girl if I ask you to hangout I really mean it. It doesn't necessarily mean your being friendzoned she could just really likes spending time with you. But if your not up to hanging out with her tell her how you will. Trust me girls like hanging out a lot but they need space too maybe don't always try to be available so she knows your kinda hard to get this definitely works and makes the girl wanting more

[Asker]

Part of me feels like im being used for attention. She is seeing someone already. I like her but I can't shake that feeling but she's nice and i'm not trying to be a dick and tell her don't come over until im absolutely sure

[Opinion Owner]

that just may be the reason but you don't know for sure and if she already is seeing someone maybe she can trust you and just needs someone to talk to if you end up helping her with her situations maybe when her relationship ends you'll be the one she goes to.