in an adult relationship sex is considered "on the table" from the 3rd date on.
I have dated 8 women since I stared dating after my divorce last January.
I have had sex with 3 of them.
2 of them we had sex starting on the 3rd date. the other one we didn't even have a first date. after several days of texting I went to her house and we had sex. Literally 90 seconds after meeting her and saying hello I my pants were off and she was sucking my cock.
I have never had any relationship where sex was the reason that it did or did not last. WHY would that ever be an issue? if anything I think it brings you closer together and strengthens it.
Also because my ex wife let me cum in her mouth for 7 yrs, then out of the blue said i couldn't do it anymore because she didn't like it, even though she never once complained, for 18 years I had a hole in me.
so it is a deal breaker for me i any relationship. if I cannot cum in her mouth then it is not something I want to continue to live without. So sex early answers any questions I have before we get too many feelings on either side.
But I am much older and when you get older you have different views on sex. you see it is something that can be enjoyed between adults. While not being sexually compatible can end a relationship, having sex early has NOTHING to do with if the relationship lasts or not.
It drives me crazy to see all these women that wait for marriage to have sex. That is something that is SO important to know if you are compatible before marriage. To get married without having sex first is just stupid and crazy...
Yes. If I am okay with hooking up with her, then it isn't a problem. She only runs a risk of looking slutty if she wants to move faster than me. Most guys really don't have the double standard women think we do. Just like a guy that moves too fast for a woman, can make the woman believe he is not a good relationship choice, guys use the same standard for women. If we are both willing participants then there is normally no problem.
Me and my boyfriend had sex on the second date.
Still together 2,5 years down the line.
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Most of my LTRs started with sex on the third date.
I never had first date sex, but wouldn't rule out a relationship with her, if I liked her enough to be with her.
Yes. A relationship to me is someone I willingly go out of my way to see just because I enjoy being with them. If anything more happens it'll follow.
Yeah, after we have the relationship talk.
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