Why do guys ask "why are you so wet"?

[Anonymous]

Why do guys ask this? I'll make out with a guy I'm dating and then that leads to hand down the pants/skirt and I mean literally EVERY TIME they ask why I'm so wet? Like isn't that a good thing? Shouldn't you feel proud that you got me to that state? I don't think they say it insultingly. But is that what you consider 'dirty talk'? Or do you think I'm loose down their because I'm wet? I do have orgasms easily, and I get turned on quickly, but I didn't think that was bad. It's not like I'm leaking/dripping or anything extreme like that. To be honest I guess I get 'slick' but thats the MAX I ever get. I am a squirter but it actually takes very precise bodily arrangement for that to happen so it rarely happens, actually only with one boyfriend and never with anyone else so that can't be why EVERY guy I get to 2nd base with says that. Why do guys say that?

[kaylaS91]

I doubt he's asking in out of curiosity. It's just something he says out of surprise. I've been with my boyfriend for over 8 months, and he still gets amused and makes a comment on how wet I get just after we've been making out.

Take it as a compliment. He definitely finds it to be a turn on that you're so into him. Perhaps in his previous experiences with girls, they never got that wet so it's a novelty for him.

[broadsword]

Not sure why, are all the guys been with a bit immature or something? I would take it as a great compliment. It's always fantastic to find your woman so aroused that she is as wet as you describe. Nothing is such a turn on to think your woman's body is telling you how much she wants you. Ignore them it's just you havnt found the right guy who appreciates you yet.

[BearsAnswers]

The only reason a guy would ask that, if they are making out with a girl, is because they are very inexperienced, or so insecure that they need some sort of validation of your interest and affection.

A guy that knows what's what wouldn't have any need to ask that.

[stevie123]

I have never had to ask that question.
I KNOW why she is wet. My tongue and fingers are doing the job.
Yes it is a good thing that you are getting excited and wet.
Lucky you. enjoying the squirt

[molan]

Because there are use to dry girls, so when they actually feel you are wet, they can't believe it's natural.

[Anonymous]

They WANT to hear that they are the reason you're so wet, that they are turning you on.