You asks her what she wants from you and she says she wants to know if you want anything other than sex from her--would you answer honestly?

[Anonymous]

you like a girl but she's confusing you so you ask her what she wants... she tells you she wants to know if you want anything other than serx from her.

would you answer honestly.

there's a guy whips getting frustrated with me even though far as i can see I'm not playing gAmes.

so I'm not sure why the frustration less he's not getting what he wants -which course he's not telling me what that is but head ok asking me what i want.

doesn't seem right. why so secretive... so I'm thinking ill just ask him if he wants anything other than sex. bc if not then were wasting each others time. bc when i like a guy i like the whole person sand i want to get to know him as a person way before sex.

I'm not judging if he mainly wants sex. i just want to know so I'm not wasting my time. do you think hell be honest?

do you think hell be offended?

would you be--either?

[carelessxwhisper]

I'm a girl, but based on what you said about him being secretive, I would be more inclined to believe he just wants sex. The thing is, if a guy wants something more, he'll tell you. However, if he's shy or maybe isn't sure how you feel, he may be less likely to open up yet. I say tell him how you feel and see how he responds.

[Asker]

well i don't really want to talk about how i feel at this point. I'm not the one who's upset so i don't see why i should have to talk about my ferretings. I'm really not at the point where I'm thinking of what i want. i didn't want to think about it yet as we dk each other well.. its just his frustration is odd. so i was going to ask him. i don't really need to invent feelings to ask a question,. do i?

[Asker]

and don't think he's shy. he told me he liked me and wanted to get to know me better like a month or two after we met. if he was shy he wouldn't be able to say that, i think.

[Ez_or_Hard]

i'd say i want you. i want to hold you , cuddle you, be with you , protect you , love you , help you when your down , and make sure that she is my girl , and will always be loved by me. but thats just me if its another guy than i dont know what they would say. but honesty is the best way to go.

[albundyfan]

Damn! I always want sex, but its offensive to me when girls think thats all I want. I wouldn't bother to talk to you if I only wanted sex. Other guys effing girls heads up.