Would you look at your friends cleavage?

[rosaliethayer]

If you had a friend who was a girl, and she was showing cleavage, would you look? Does being shown a little clevage motivate you at all? Do you try to make staring not obvious?

[why_not_anonymous]

Yes. I'd try not to be too obvious.

Motivate how? To ask her out? Not necessarily, I mean she might not be showing cleavage for me. Now, if she invited me over, then went and changed (and I knew we weren't going out, and that nobody else was invited over), then I'd probably take that as a signal. But, just because a woman decides to show some cleavage doesn't mean she wants me to hit on her.

But if she's going to show off her assets, then I'm going to appreciate the show. It's a free country, and nobody says she has to wear stuff that shows off her cleavage. If she doesn't want it looked at, then she should wear something different.

[Anonymous]

Yes we do take notice if our friend is showing her cleavage.

There are two possible feelings that might kick in :
1. We might get really attracted to you if we always had feelings for you at the back of our head.
2. We might get really protective of you if other guys try to hit on you and we don't find them good enough for you.

However don't think too much about it, the guy is your friend and you can always tell him not to look if you do catch him staring without making it awkward

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[LastGirlScout]

yes, and I'd tell her! My friend has just had a baby and her boobs are massive and I can't stop looking at them... and she knows this! No, me and my female friends are very open about stuff like that and if we're looking at each other we kinda take it as a compliment.

[Account]

Of course they do. I avoid showing cleavage when I hang out with male friends. I usually dress in a really modest way (hoodies, jeans and converse) when I am out with them.

[denisenic01e]

Everyone looks.. If it's hanging out, the person clearly wants it to be seen!

[koibito]

No I wouldn't! It's so totally wrong! I'll not look at anyone's cleavage except my girl's, and even her's I'll try to make it not obvious or keep it casual.

But it's seriously distracting though, and I really REALLY don't know where to put my gaze. It's taking all that I've got to stop gazing down naturally, cause I got a bad habit of gazing downwards at the floor during conversation.

There is this feeling of attraction that I know I'm not supposed to have. And if it's a best friend of mine, I'll probably tell her that her cleavage is showing (if she didn't intend to show it).

[broadsword]

Yes friend or not you are a woman and men like cleavage we can't help it we are programmed to admire the female form. This where we men are the weaker sex.

[Junlian]

Depending on the guy. Me will simply stare and quickly stap my eyes to her face. I'd wonder why she's showing it but is think nothing of it.

[Anonymous]

My friends and I grab each other's boobs sometimes. Also when I wear a low cut shirt my friends have no problem staring and making comments about them. I think it depends on the friendship.

[steveisbored]

A guy is going to look at cleavage of a friend, yes. Probably try to hide it more than a random girl, but he is deff going to look

[neoagent1]

Yes, friend or not, if she's showing cleavage, we look. Guys are frozen by nice breasts.

[Anonymous]

Yes. It¨'s not a matter of choice for men. Men simply HAVE to look at any cleavage that is in the area.

[Jeremias]

Of course, without being obvious.

[Shmusername]

Yup. And feel really stupid about it.

[Iron_Man]

For a sec when she's not looking all guys look