Is it ok for a woman to give a man money?
I've been dating a guy for a couple of months now. He is a really good guy. He works, is honest, and truly just wants to get his life together for... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
It is a difficult accepting help from a woman or a man if one is self-sufficient. You are doing nothing wrong, in fact it is admirable you care enough to want to do somehing that nice. He may have pride issues with accepting the gift, if he doesn't then something is amiss, and it has nothing to do with you being a woman. There are times in life when a little unsolicited help is great but we should always want to make our own way. Do what you feel just watch his reaction. Don't ever be scared to be nice. We need more of that in this world.
What Guys Said 3
Giving and taking money is always a really hard decision to make.
First off all: what exactly do you mean by "give him money so he can take a break"? Of how much money are we talking here - what intend would you like the money to be used for?
Given those answers you may find others ways to help him than rather giving him the money directly - like spending a weekend with his children someplace else on your bill. If he accepts that, he might be open to other things, too.
Though all this surely depends on how far your relationship has developed...
The thing would insult his manhood if he is actually a good guy, but at the same time I think you're being disillusioned as to think he is such a great guy. Granted I don't know him but everybody earns their own situation, and he seems in a BAD spot right now. Do you really want to be dragged down into this?
What Girls Said 1
Of course it is. This is the 21st century!