Help!!! Had phone sex with my friend?

[Anonymous]

I have been friends with this one guy since we were in fourth grade. I always had a crush on him but never let him know. When we were in high school we were dared to kiss each other but we did not. Now we are in our thirties and we have reconnected. He is divorced with two kids I am married with two kids. He has been calling me for the last two years for advice on certain topics. This last call he wanted me to help him find a job. Well during one of our conversations we were both buzzed. We started talking about our high school years and one thing led to another we started talking dirty to each other on the phone. Then he told me that when he sees me he will do everything we talked about. The next day I texted him to make sure he was OK and asked if he found a job. Then I asked him about the conversation we had and he told me that all what happened was that his cell battery was dying and he fell asleep. I told him OK cool no problem. Well now I texted him one more time to see how he is doing and he won't respond. He won't even answer a call that I made to him. I just don't know what to think. I really want my friend back. Please help!!!

[emmabee11]

I think just forget it don't bring it up again and act like nothing ever happened, if he still doesn't answer he's just acting horribly... if he can ignore you like that after being friends that long he obviously isn't who you thought he was and i know how you feel... been there and i recently stopped being friends with a guy who i was friends with since the start of high school but he turned really horrible... hanging with the wrong crowed of people really... id just leave him be for a little bit and see how it goes but if nothing from him then that's his problem really...

[Asker]

Thank you so much. I will be doing that. I agree with you 100%.

[emmabee11]

No problem, how did it even get into the phone sex anyway? who came up with the first innaproriate thing? i used to talk a bit rude with my friend too really... but it was more of a mocking way not really full on sex talk, although at 1 point we went on Skype and he lay in front of it with only his boxers... i was shocked lol.

[Asker]

Well it started with our high school reunion coming up. He told me "well you can at least introduce your husband but you can introduce me as your lover". My face was 😟. And then he started the conversation in that direction. I have never done anything with anyone else since I met and married my husband. But my husband is a truck driver and he has been gone for over 6 months. I have been dealing with financial and kid issues all by myself. I think I caved because I just need that attention. Believe me I feel so guilty but I also miss my friend.

[emmabee11]

I know the feeling i've never had a serious relationship but sometimes i've done stupid stuff just because i wanted attention but wasn't really worth it in the end... why would he say he introduce him as your love? what was all that about? lol so he pretty much started it knowing you have always liked him, sounds like he's just screwing around because he knows your husband is out of town. Why has your husband been that long? did you break up? if it's just his job no job really keeps someone away from home like that :\ seems odd.

[Asker]

Yeah he has been out because of his job. He is a truck driver. I have been calling my husband every day but all I get from my husband is that he is tired and can't talk. I am so happy that someone actually understands and not judging me.

[emmabee11]

Ouch! does he ever come back? or is he not? if not i wouldn't wait on him, i can understand your feeling totally neglected when your husband won't even talk to you that's just really rude, i think you need to think what's best for you, you don't sound happy with it at all.

[Anonymous]

are you serious? you're soooooooooooooooooooooo worried about this guy and not the fact THAT YOU CHEATED ON YOUR HUSBAND !

i know you wouldn't be too happy if your husband had phone sex with an old crush of his

[Asker]

Oh believe me he has his moments! I just feel bad because this is my first time.

[Mgoods]

Not worth it. Concentrate on your marriage. That friendship isn't salvagable and moreover, it's not a good idea seeing as you're still obv attracted to him.

[Zango91]

My advice, Save your marriage when you still hav a chance. He is already divorced, he has nothing to lose. You on the other hand, is still married and think of your kids. Past is past. You are saved if he didn't record it. Just think that the high school kiss was still due and now you hav just paid your dues. Will help you to move on I guess.

[Asker]

Thank you so much.

[Justaskme88]

Either he's messed up and doesn't know what he's doing and got scarred. Or he's playing you. Weak of him not to reply or answer calls and say oh my batt was dying. Lame excuse man. he's not experienced that seems certain.

[Asker]

Thank you. Its good to hear a man's perspective that is educated.

[Justaskme88]

Your welcome. Sounds like you could do way better than him

[Justaskme88]

there's a lot more i could go into about this situation if you want. Message me if you want to chat about it :)

[WesTheGuru]

You're married and you want to talk to a guy who just had drunken phone sex with you. This is a horrible idea unless you're getting divorced

[thisGUYknows]

Don't over think it. He's probably just embarrassed.

[amandagayle252074]

I say worry about the family you already have

[Anonymous]

He thinking what he said to you cross the line may I ask while
talking on the phone did you fantasies rub your pussy even finger fuck your self
did you cum now though you married would you fuck him
Ever like to talk sexual conversations share fantasies and experiences
I'm here love to cum with you

[Anonymous]

I can't believe everyones actually giving you advice. All I can think about is that your married and having phone sex with other dudes on the phone. But all you can think about is how to get this guy back. Disgusting.

[Asker]

My husband is not in the picture. He has been gone for over 6 months. Its just me and my kids.

[Opinion Owner]

I can tell when people are lying to me, and thats you right now.

[Asker]

Well you are entitled to your opinion. No biggie. If u are disgusted well that is on you. Really I am a open person to opinions. Good for you hopefully you never go through any mess. Wish you the best.

[CherryCoke89]

Doesn't matter ow long he's been gone, you're still married... cheating

[Opinion Owner]

He's ducking you cause your husband is still in the picture. As long as I avoid women like you I will never be in any mess, cheers.

[Asker]

Lol. Ok. Keep telling yourself that. Whatever makes you feel good.

[Anonymous]

Looks like you got played.