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Why are guys so eager to take off a girl's bra? Do they even pay attention to a girls lingerie?

Every guy that I have been with whether boyfriend or hookup, are always so eager to remove my bra, underwear, basically any article of clothing I have within 10 seconds of sex. lol All that effort I put into picking nice clothes to wear seems unappreciated and a waste of time because guys just remove it so quickly. Its like they dont even care. I dont get it. Do they notice my nice lingerie anad fashionable clothing?
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  • Unless we are queer, we are not fashion designers we are women lovers. Sure I see that stuff. It is appreciated to some extent. It is exciting when your out and about. But her best assets are what is underneath. Girls care more about fashion. She could be wearing ripped up sweat clothes from a thrift store and it would be fine it me.

    As far as why the bra must come off quick?

    Well for me, I want to see and fondle her breasts and start suckling her nipples for 10 or 15 minutes and see if I can give her 'O' #1 just from the nipple suckling, then move down below. If a girl has big breasts and you get can both nipples in your mouth at once, sometimes she can climax from a '2 for 1' nipple sucking sale. I'm getting old and the penis is starting to show its age and abuse from p*rn and MB, so I need some female stimulation to get my penis hard - the ladies breasts do a great job for that.

    Anyway, thanks to all the ladies for dressing so beautifully and brightening up our world. Without you ladies, our life would be a hell hole.

    • Let me amend my previous reply... The time to enjoy the lingerie is when your doing the light or heavy petting. Sure, she can keep her delicates on for 20 or 30 minutes during petting. I like to pull her bra cup a little open to take a peek at her nipples. Stick my hand in her panties. Things like that with lots of Frenching. But once it is time to get down to biz her clothes have to come of as fast as humanly possible. We should never forget all these externals are mere gift wrapping for the treasures that lie underneath.

    • Addendum #3 Your thinking like a lady when you asked your question. No hetero man would ever ask 'why are guys so eager to take off a girl's bra?' That is like saying why do men like women? And that question can be further distilled as why do men like boobies. Well, no one can answer that question. It is like asking why you like vanilla or chocolate... you just do. Same with women and men. Boobies are relaxing and exciting both at the same time. They are very unique parts of a women's body that drive men crazy. Now, they don't have to be massive. As long as they are bigger than a boys chest they excite me. But this is all a matter of persoanl taste. Let me give you a backstory to illustrate the difference between men and women. A while back I was at a bikers rally. They had 3 girls there that were offering 'beads for balls.' Now, I don't care about getting mardi gras beads at all. But I wanted to help out the girls and offered letting th

    • help out the girls and let them take a photo of my balls. They told me they just wanted to photo one ball. (They wanted to make it a challenge.) Lesson #1... If I went up to a gal at an event and asked her to show me her clitoris so I can take a photo of it what type of response will I get? Lesson #2. While I had my 1 ball out they commented it was not too wrinkled or saggy. I asked them if they wanted to touch it. They replied "No thank you." Well, if a gal asked a guy if he wanted to touch her clitoris, she wouldn't have to ask twice... would she? Can you see the polar opposite thinking that women and men exhibit over sexual matters. Let me sum it up by saying this; men are crazed about women for the most Their lives revolve around thoughts of women day and night. As such, they can hardly control themselves with excitement, joy and expectation when it comes time to getting at a ladies body.

  • They don't understand the concept of delayed gratification. :P Honestly, lingerie is definitely something I would pay attention to. I pay a lot attention to style (in general, not just lingerie :P) and I know what I like. I would definitely notice how every frill or lace and color would flatter or unflatter them. Wearing something appealing would very much add to the experience. But I'm also not one to rush things. I find a girl I find very attractive, I prefer to take things slow and fully admire appreciate every bit of her. <3

Most Helpful Girl

  • A woman in lingerie is like a candy bar in a wrapper as far as most men are concerned.

    • Exactly, no matter how ornate the wrapper is, I still want to taste what's underneath.

    • Myth: I like the way women dress. However, women I lust after I want her to take it all off, but women I love (gf, wife, daughter, mother, sister) I want to buy them fur coats and nice fabrics to cover up her beautiful body until she (gf or wife) reveals it only for me muahahaha

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  • They do, but they prefer what's under it. Lol. They should slow down, it's more fun that way.

  • Hey, take it as a compliment. You know, clothes is like the wrapping on the christmass gift, with you being the gift. So simply means that want the gift real bad.
    But if you really want to have him take his time, you should take a little controll and dictate the pace yourself :)

  • Depends on the guys I for one rather enjoy playing with the bra, it's sexier to play with the boob when you have some sort of clothing to slide your hand under.
    I suppose younger men are so consumed by hormones and hornyness that they want to kickstart this thing.

  • we notice and appreciate it in fact it turns us on more which is why we want to rip it off your body and get sexy.

  • Cause boobs are freaking awesome? I think sometimes we rush sex because we worry something might come along and interrupt us and stop it happening at all (Phone call, baby cries, someone comes to the door)

  • Attention yes... if we would not pay attention than why would some girls put on a short dress or skirt and garter belt stockings?
    But the focus should be on the girl. If a cute girl puts something sexy on then that's attractive of course. But only if the person herself is attractive herself.
    If a prostitute stands in fromt of me with the sexiest outfit but an attitude like "I'm doing my job" than that's not sexy. It's a turn off!

  • I do. I'd take my time and enjoy every inch. Sometimes if it's a nice bra I like her to leave it in during sex. It can be sexy.

  • Appreciation for you clothing develops only in long term relationships. Quickie guys are just interested in whats covered by them, not the cover.

  • Dont let them undress u then , just push him , and start undress yourself slowly , i think it is hotter..

  • Let's say you have a candy.

    Now, a cover is obviously important: it attracts your attention, but at the end of a day it's the taste of a candy that matters, right?

    Same goes for lingerie: it's used to underline a beauty of a female body, but once we got that glimpse of it, lingerie is just an obstacle of things that we truly want to see. So pretty much it's not exactly relevant. Don't expect a guy to remember your lingerie or pay much of an attention to it.

    • Alternatively you can think of a gift wrap for a present: sure it's nice to see your present being nicely packed, but at the end of the day it's all about the gift and you will forget about gift wrap immediately since it's absolutely irrelevant.

  • Pay attention to wut... jk jk

  • Boobs are fun!

  • That stuff is nice too it just depends on the person he clearly is a boob guy lol. Do you have big titties?

  • Yeah, that sounds like me. Sometimes I'm just too eager to do the deed but considerately. That's why I used to think slim natural redheads were or are easier ;)

  • Girls dress for other girls, boys also dress for girls. If there were no women on Earth, the 'heterosexual' men would be content with wearing a leaf on their cock.

  • I 'll notice it and think that's good but I don't really care. It's more for her to feel sexy. Unless she wears those things that attach to stocking I don't know what you call them but they're so hot

  • Men hardly pay attention to what you are wearing unless it is his personal fetish. I prefer naked all the time

  • paying attention to the lingerie is like paying attention to the wrapping paper for a Christmas gift. we want boobs not bras.

  • I may notice it, but I don't pay much attention to it.

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