For guys: if you have a gf, for what reason would you screenshot other girls pics and keep it on your phone?

[Anonymous]

I'm curious if all guys do this? And if so, what is the purpose? I'm talking about regular girls or acquaintances not famous celebrities or anything. Just some random girls you see on Facebook or Instagram! Of course I'm a girl, I have insecurities and I would think that as my bf, he would have respect to not save the pics! The only thing that pops into my mind is that he jerks off to it when I'm not around. Like if it was some famous chick I would be more understanding but this is just heart breaking.

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I'm not psycho, I'm not going crazy over him having pics of his friends. It's of girls in bikinis or half naked. One of which we both know from work, and the others are just young pretty girls which he is more than 10 years older than so I know for a fact they aren't his friends or classmates.

[TripleAce]

This is an easy one. Trust me

Its quiet normal to want to see naked women. I mean after all its been years now that we wear clothes to cover ourselves, its only normal to want to see what lies under. Myself, I have pictures of naked women too. Some on my computer and some on my phone. Its just hot to look at I guess. I do have a gf and she does know I have them. We've seen them together actually because im not like going to hide it from her.

HOWEVER, there is one big difference here. People you know and talk to is wrong! People you have zero contact with ever is ok. Mine are all models, and if there are some that are not models I have zero contact with these girls ever. There complete strangers to me and thats why its ok. I would never have a sexy picture of a girl I know, that would just be weird and very disrespectful to my gf

So in summary, Its ok but not people you have even 0.00001% contact with. That's not ok.

Reason: Because to visualize someone in a provocative manner when you know them, what do you think happens when they talk. Those personal thoughts surface and thats like mental cheating.

[dartmaul15]

Question; would you think he's ok with you having images of random guys you see on FB or instagram?

You see, while they may be random to you, it could be friends or similar. ANd if such is the case, i would say you are yealous for demanding him not to keep them. And you not letting him keep those images would actually be rather demanding, you know. Because guys are in fact statistically more faithfull than girls (at least in marriage. no acurate stats for before marriage exist), and we KNOW where our love is, so cut him some slack, ok? Unless he got a reputation for being a player, then gril friends are just that; girl friends.

I would suggest you two talk about it, and try to figure out IF he has a platonic relation to those girls, or if the'yre just random girls. Then you two try to figure what to do, and settle for some universal rules.

[Asker]

But I don't do that, I am at a point in my relationship where I'm blinded by love that he is the only one I'm attracted to. But finding pics of other girls on his phone, which I guess I forgot to say is half naked, it makes me wonder if he's not as in love with me as he says. One is a girl we know, and the others I know he doesn't know them personally because they are too young.

[dartmaul15]

I didn't ask if you do, i asked if you think he would be ok with you IF you have. Theoretical question!

Hm, half naked? well, a guy doesn't think like a girl, and i wouldn't be surprised if he has a more casual view on nudity than you do. But yeah, it does change something (why the hell didn't you mention it to start with?), but the only thing it changes is that you should talk to him about it. Don't be accusive, but rather be understanding. If you're accusing him, there's no way in hell you'll get a honest answer out of him. Not in this case, not later...

And rememeber, don't judge his actions like it was a girl (you), but rather like he's a boy! It might sound absurd, but we're more casual when it comes to sex, and random images like that doesn't do shit to us when it comes to love. Lust, maybe. But love, not so much. And guys watch p*rn, just accept it. But yeah, images like that miiight be a little far...

[Anonymous]

I know it might be a little heart breaking. In all honesty, he might watch p*rn too. My boyfriend does and it's alright. He knows I do and is fine with it. A picture of a girl in a bikini is a lot less "harmful" than p*rn if you about it As long as he is still excited when with you and not cheating it'll be alright. Him having those pictures is no different than you having some of males. I know many females with pinterest boards dedicated to shirtless and half naked guys. There is a bit of a double standard. Since its making you uncomfortable, say something to him. Y'all are I'm a relationship and need to be able to be open about this kind of thing. Don't go accusing him of anything, but just say something along the lines of you've noticed he has those on his phone and it makes you somewhat uncomfortable. Good luck and hope it gets better.

[RawFalcone]

My girlfriend just left me because of this and Im so heartbroken and depressed over it man... she made me feel like I am disgusting... here is the scenario...

I took her out to a picnic... I never have done this before for a girl... I was laying down, with my eyes closed, just soaking in the sun while the sun got ready to set... I look over and she had my phone and she was scrolling through my pictures.

She has asked me to turn on some porn while we make love and likes to watch porn. So when she was going through my pictures I already knew the screenshots of porn, instagram models, and ass shaking videos were on there. I did not think she would react how she was about to react.

I saw her face twitch after about 2 to 3 minutes of looking at my phone. She closed my phone and asked "why do you have these screenshots" ... and I just replied "I mean I do watch porn baby... it's just porn though Ill delete it and won't watch it if you want"... so we ended the picnic and began to walk away and she just told me to never call her again... and we have been together officially for like 6 months but we have flirting with eachother since like 2017...

Anyways, I got made and I did say some shit I didn't mean, like "fuck you bitch, i hope you die" type shit... which Im pretty sure that childish side of me blew her past the edge with me...

Long story short man I feel so disgusting and confused about myself because bro me and this girl have done so much SUPER FREAKY shit that I have never done with any woman in my life and I'm 26...

And she has brought so much inspiration and love into my life bro I'm just so fucked up about this one...

[BigPhil24]

I do this.

I don't wank over the pics, but they are nice to look at and can make me happy on a boring or sad day.

Its nothing against the gf, I would still rather look at her/pics of her, but if she's not sending me any, Im gonna find my own!

[Asker]

Is it usually girls you know or seen before? Or just anyone u find attractive?

[BigPhil24]

Mixture... girls I know sometimes send me snaps...

But generally just models and anyone hot on Twitter etc!

[RawFalcone]

Bro thank you for this!

My girlfriend just left me because of this and Im so heartbroken and depressed over it man... she made me feel like I am disgusting... here is the scenario...

I took her out to a picnic... I never have done this before for a girl... I was laying down, with my eyes closed, just soaking in the sun while the sun got ready to set... I look over and she had my phone and she was scrolling through my pictures.

She has asked me to turn on some porn while we make love and likes to watch porn. So when she was going through my pictures I already knew the screenshots of porn, instagram models, and ass shaking videos were on there. I did not think she would react how she was about to react.

I saw her face twitch after about 2 to 3 minutes of looking at my phone. She closed my phone and asked "why do you have these screenshots" ... and I just replied "I mean I do watch porn baby... it's just porn though Ill delete it and won't watch it if you want"... so we ended the picnic and began to walk away and she just told me to never call her again... and we have been together officially for like 6 months but we have flirting with eachother since like 2017...

Anyways, I got made and I did say some shit I didn't mean, like "fuck you bitch, i hope you die" type shit... which Im pretty sure that childish side of me blew her past the edge with me...

Long story short man I feel so disgusting and confused about myself because bro me and this girl have done so much SUPER FREAKY shit that I have never done with any woman in my life and I'm 26...

And she has brought so much inspiration and love into my life bro I'm just so fucked up about this one...

[islands7]

Some will wallpaper their bathroom call with pics of models even when married to a hot, lustful gal
it seems odd to go so far as using pics of gals you both know... these have to come down or be erased... but that might make them even more delicious if forbidden.
Reverse psychology? Tell him you don't mind the familiar faces, just no more famous ones? or ELSE! = next time he wants the rel deal from you, you'll tell him to go f**k his phone dates

[nicko2552]

because he likes her and probably does jack off to it which is not cool if it was p*rn or a celebrity like you said that's different but if it's just the girl at the local wendy's than that's not only creepy but disrespectful

[wankiam]

however deeply in love I've been with a girl in the past, i have always wanted to wank over pics of other girls. i think its the way guys are but i know girls hate it

[vet31bSoldier]

He has pics of his friends... and you are jealous?

Hell I have pics of my friends on my phone too!

[Anonymous]

Not all guys do this, but it's probably for spank material like you suspected.

[QueenOfStuff]

It will be for his wank bank I expect.

[Anonymous]

It's precisely what you said: fap material lol.