Men do you ever regret not giving a girl a chance?

[Anonymous]

like your standards were too high and you didn't care for her when you knew she had a crush on you? you ever look back and think of her?

[Metlahead]

This has never happened to me. I guess there is one I do regret, but the situation is different. She was beautiful, my standards weren't too high, she was too sweet a girl for me, I would have hurt her. She wanted to date me and lose her virginity to me but I couldn't because I didn't want to break her heart. I don't regret not giving her a chance because I know we wouldn't be compatible, I regret not fucking her though. Too bad I can't do one without the other :)

[Asker]

i dont get it though, like how can you not want to be with her if she was so beautiful? how were you so sure you would hurt her? why wouldn't a man want a relationship with a beautiful woman? you just let her get away?

[Metlahead]

She was too sweet for me, I like a bad girl.

[bijinbijinbijin]

everyone knows that virgins get super attached and they can't just have sex just to have sex. I think he made the right choice in rejecting her sinse he knew that he didn't want a relationship with her.

[bijinbijinbijin]

there were times i wish guys would have just rejected me instead of leading me on.

[Azara]

not true. plenty of virgins have sex just to have sex and move on.

in this case she liked him and he didn't want her so of course he should reject her. but nit bc she's a virgin.

[Azara]

and if those guys had rejected you you'd never haste learnt from the experience. you might still be thinking it could've been great if they'd jus given you a chance. can't make other peoples decisions for them. they have to be able to learn on their own. him not wanting her is legit. but him deciding for her if she should be in a relationship is just patronizing.

[TheYellowBear]

There was one girl.

She was kind, considerate, funny, beautiful and she liked me, but I was so insecure that I could never picture myself with her, I never could accept that she liked me, I felt like she was too good for me.

If only I met her now it would be a different story; I still think about her from time to time, I hope she has found someone special and is enjoying a great life because she was a great character.

[Anonymous]

I think im in the same situation. I told this shy guy my feelings and he sisnt really reject me in a sense, but said he had a gf but aso thanked me. several times for telling him. Its a new year now and i like him but I don't know what he thinks cuz hw dowsnt have a gd anymore. Do you think he thinks "if she came now, id say yes. "?

[Azara]

what did you stay. curious bc people say told my feelings but i never know exactly why they mean. surely you didn't tell him all your feelings, so which did you tell him?

[Opinion Owner]

I basically said " i wanted to tell u something for a long time. I wouldve wanted to tell u in person but i ddint see an oppurtunity like tht coming so i decided to do it on b insted. I think you're realy cute/handsoem/goodlooking (i firfot which i said ) and would like to get to know u better"

[porky991]

Yes. Every time I look the girl I always think in the back of my head "You fucked up bro, should have at least tried"

[Asker]

:( if he came back and apologized id take him back

[Tdieseler]

I've had my share of regrets but never because some girl had a crush on me. doesn't mean i have to like her back. it doesn't work the other way around so why should it work this way?

[meatballs21]

Yes, and it's one of my biggest regrets. I see now that she was perfect for me :(

[shiiiet]

Yes, especially when I was too scared to do anything in case I messed up. Wish I could go back 5 years and slap the shit out of myself.

[Asker]

how would u mess up?

[shiiiet]

I can't explain it but you feel like since you weren't in a relationship before, you might do stupid/awkward things. I know it sounds stupid now but that is a real issue that some guys face.

[looking_for_purpose]

I have never felt that feeling because I have never been able to in the first place because I was never given a chance in the first place

[Asker]

im sorry u feel that way but you are under 18 im sure as u get older u will find the right girl for u =]

[looking_for_purpose]

Thank you for the sympathy

[Anonymous]

Yes very often i was in fifth grade and so was she all the guys liked her but she liked me and i liked another so one day on the way to band she kisses me out of nowhere on the cheek i was embarresed and walked off over the next few years i developed a taste for trash'easy girls'and she stayed beautiful and loyal to her boyfriend, i will always regret being to insecure with girls at the time to handle that moment differently.:(

[chadsten]

It's healthier for you to accept that he's gone rather than to find some angle of false hope to further confuse you and delay the healing process.

[been_waiting]

this

[molan]

Not really no, we have all tried being rejected, it's the way of life.

[Nuns_in_Heat]

Nope. I had legitimate reasons, so I have no regrets.

[Asker]

what kind of reasons?

[Cómoestás]

Absolutely not. I had one girl ask me out and I say no. Still don't regret nada

[Anonymous]

Nope and I have no regrets. My standards are high and they're staying that way.

[Anonymous]

I've never been in this situation

[Argus14]

No, not really.

[Anonymous]

I hope so lol