Ok, try to think if you were a guy, what's it do you think can make a relationship longer? If a girl always cater for guys, open up to everything, cuddle, kiss, sex.. isn't that showing guys, the girl is easy to get, maybe after a few days, they wanna seek for other challenges, they think they ve already conquer the girl, don't have to waste time coz they got everything they need from the girl..
Example, you are so into an dress in a fashion store, it's gorgeous and fancy, you want it so much, then the salesman tells you, you can own it only 10 bucks, coz it’s on sale, you maybe super excited and buy it without hesitation. You try it on and find you are beutiful with the dress, so you wear it a lot, you know it's cheap, don't have to worry the longtime wearing may do some damage to it, you can still afford buying more, only 10 bucks..
The same dress, you want so much, but the price is not 10 bucks, but $999. You can't afford buy it, but you always imagine the look you with the it. From the first day you saw it, you start saving money, and doing part time job for a month or two, or borrowing money from friends, you wanna own the dress ASAP, coz it's so shining in the store like a star, it can be bought by anyone anytime. So every minute is a torture, your mind is always focus on it. Luckily, when you walk into the store with the money you saved, earned, borrowed, you see the dress still there around people, you get nervous and pay for it, then take it back home just like carrying a priceless thing. You try it on, looking at the mirror, moving, smiling, showing to your friends, family, but it's so expensive and precious, you may only wear it on some special or important occasion, you cherish it so much for it's took much effort to get which is so hard. Does that make sense?
Just a question based on what I have seen with my friends - are you sleeping with them?
I'm assuming no, but if so, that may be why. Beyond that, they must not feel like you two are compatible so they cut things off. Try to not take it personal, happens to all of us :-)
Ok. You have a bunch of guys who lost interest in You after getting serious. Not do this - You know what kind of men tend to loose interest in You. Now keep them at distance. Explain - You have a bad experience and don't want to repeat it. And try to keep Yourself available for someone who is different. Because nice guy will not bother with a girl who is taken by someone else or who is changing men too often.
what makes me lose interest in a girl is when I find out I don't like some things about her that appear to be deal breakers. what you're going through is normal, don't sweat it. you just haven't had a good match up yet.
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Do you ahow interest too? Do you ask questions about him instead of just talking about you? Do you try to involve in fun activities? Do they laugh when and enjoy their time with you?
its seriously not your fault.
Just keep swimming, lots of fish in the sea.
You are disinteresting.
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