Why do guys at my church stare at me? When they know that?

[Anonymous]

Here's the thing. I'm 5 ft. and 165 lbs. So my body is obviously not attractive. According to my doctor I am just overweight! anyways... I find guys at my church staring at me {they look at my face}. Why? i mean, my body isn't attractive and majority of guys like a girl with a fit tight body, which is something i dont have. One guy in particular... Mark... He is a muscian for the worship team... He is hot. anyways... He stares at me too! why?

[why_not_anonymous]

Overweight ain't always bad. Maybe you've got massive boobage going on?

What's the competition like? Are there lots of 'fit tight bodies' in your congregation? Have you chatted up any of these guys? Perhaps you have an amazing smile, and an outgoing personality?

If a woman isn't obese, a little fat can be worked around for a lot of guys - especially if you have something else going for you.

[Asker]

Well... I do have MAJOR boobage going on... I have thick legs and a big butt haha... My stomach area isn't so hot... & yeah their is :/ & no I haven't I'm waaaay too shy!!

[why_not_anonymous]

Okay, they're likely thinking about motorboating you.

So, simple desire to hit it with the big boobs.

If the competition is all that, then make sure you make them work for it. Because there will be a number of hit it and quit its going on.

[why_not_anonymous]

thanks for mho

Did you get all the advice you wanted? Feel free to hit me again.

[Bardock95]

I don't know, seeing anyone young or my age in church always makes me wonder, and I find myself staring at women more at church than anywhere else to be truthfully honest. And those who wear the veils always make me stare. There is a strange beauty of those who believe and hope in God from those who try to live a humble life

[cth96190]

If the church that you attend is like the typical church here, you might be the only woman in the building who is still of reproductive age.
Aside from the happy clappers, the Christian churches here resemble senior citizens' meetings. The term 'God's waiting room' comes to mind when I look at the congregations.

[vet31bSoldier]

He isn't. You just happen to sit in front of the clock.

... sry...

[Asker]

Their isn't a clock in the sanctuary.

[vet31bSoldier]

*there..
... it was a joke...

[TheAmazingPotato]

These jokes are amusing

[reptocarl]

You must have a pretty face and they like you and want to ask you out

[Anonymous]

No matter where he look, there u r!

[Asker]

Lmao what?

[Tokana]

Maybe you stick out like a sore thumb.

[Asker]

I probably do

[mutedaisy]

You are a Butter-Body in your description.

[I-Am-Bored]

Because obviously they see the devil in you.

[Shut_Up_And_Marry_Me]

Hot face fat body. It's a thing.

[Asker]

How is it a thing?

[Anonymous]

Because it's a cult.

[Asker]

What's a cult?

[Opinion Owner]

The men who stare at you are in a cult of lust.