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Why does this guy ALWAYS stare at my ass?

It happens always I have to walk past him. Even if he is alone. I - naturally - don't turn around to see if he checks me out but it's kinda obvious... You know, when the guy sees you coming, he either starts to turn his head before you walk past or he turns his head at the moment you walk by and you can see him from the side. One day, he was with one of his friend who I noticed for having a disrespectful behaviour towards me (staring at my boobs, commenting it with another friend and catcalling). When they saw me coming they started whispering, smiling and when I passed them they got quiet but I know, the second after, when I had to walk past them they stared. I don't know why they act like this as I don't have a big ass at all - I have a small one actually -. I wear, as approximately all the girls in my highschool, jeggings or skinny jeans. Why does his friend act like that? He made me feel so bad, like I was provocative or a sl*t even if I don't dress as it at all. So why does he check out my ass everytime I walk past him even if I have a small ass?
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and he doesn't look at my face
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he's not the only one but one of the most constant and obvious
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He checks it out whatever I wear. Really. Last day I looked different (new haircut and clothes), I was turning my back to him and I turned around, caught him looking in my direction in a crowded room as he walked.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah well for starters big asses aren't always the most interesting to look at haha. Some guys actually prefer small and round butts.

    I can understand being annoyed by all the unwanted catcalls and the sexual leering/comments though. Some guys can only think with their dick. They don't realize that their catcall can also offend some girls, they think they're just making you feel good about yourself when it's having the opposite effect.

    One solution could be to wear a sweater around your waist to hide the mesmerizing wonders of your buttocks. :p Another solution could be to confront them. Tell them how it makes you feel if they're friends/classmates. Otherwise scream at them or punch/kick them in the nuts lol. You can also try talking to a teacher or to the director of the school if it continues or degenerates.

    • I'm just gonna ignore them, because if I change how I dress, how I behave because of two guys, that would be a kind of defeat but thanks for all your advices, now I know guys of my age aren't as mature as they want us to believe ;D

  • For the same reason all guys look at a girl's boobs and ass.

    It helps them to recall complex Calculus equations.

    • Obviously hahaha :D

    • Even if they've never taken a calculus course in their life?

    • @Bear_of_Death Yup. That's some mighty powerful ass.

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  • Maybe he's into buttholes where shit comes out. haha.
    Jk. im not sure, sounds like a jerk who likes someone but acts mean. Kind of like Helga being mean to Arnold but so crazy about him. xD

    • Hahaha x) He used to be interested in more than my body, but you know as he's the hot popular guy I didn't understand why he would have been interested in me and showed him the wrong signs so he moved on But I think his friend is the worst ;)

  • Just because an ass is small doesn't mean its not a nice ass.
    He likes what he sees.
    As long as he isn't saying anything disrespectful... let him look.

    • I will ;) But that's his friend who is disrespectful

  • He simply likes what he sees doesn't have to be huge for a guy to like an ass lol just saying. Guy's will stare regardless.

    • As long as it's not ugly I suppose? Thanks for answering :)

    • They will still look lol & you're welcome :)

  • Cuz he likes your ass? Why else would he continue looking?

    • Yeah, now I'd say that too but before I wrote this post, I didn't really understand why he stared at that kind of small ass Thanks for answering :)

    • Not every guy likes big ol' donks. He probably has a preference for smaller butts.

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  • I'd say you have a great ass then. AND boobs. LOL. If I got a dollar ever time a guy stared at a girl's package, I'd be rich!! So, no worries.

  • He likes your ass. Simple.

    • Ok, it's ok, but why he doesn't even try to be discreet?

    • He either just doesn't give a fuck or he's oblivious to how obvious he is being.

  • It is many of the reasons that other people have already mentioned including you must have a very very nice ass. Remember like was mentioned by someone else not every guy likes a ass to look the same on a female some like big asses sure but just as many guys like small asses and some like a medium sized ass. I think they can not take their eyes off your ass because they find it so nice. Also tight jeans will do it to, guys love tight jeans on girls. I see you think your ass is small so it can't not be nice well that is not true trust me guys will be looking and thinking wow she has a nice ass. Just remember though that while it could be what I have mentioned so far it could also be that the guy is a jerk and is just being stait out mean about your ass to. I am not trying to upset you, in face I am trying to protect you from getting upset by warning you he could be being mean to.

    • You perfectly sum up everything people said, thanks :) I'm sure his friend is a jerk, him, I think he is too (you know, the popular and hot guy who can get any girls? that's him). Mean about my ass.. It could be. But, why would he check it out even when he's alone? Even turn the head to get a better look at it (I caught him). And his friend - when they're not together and he sees me coming - he just turns around to look at me walking in front of him and when I'm about to walk past him he turns around again so... I don't know x)

    • My guess is he likes your ass and is talking to his friend about how sexy your ass is. He is probably doing it in a disrespectful way though. But I would say he loves your ass.

    • so you're sure it's not in a mean way? Totally disrespectful, but, again, they're jerks ;) Really? He 'loves' it?

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  • He likes your ass.

    • Short and simple, thanks :) But do they they're not discreet at all and that it makes me feel uncomfortabled when they whisper like this?

    • I wasn't discrete at all looking at the ass of a woman I was attracted to. Kind of surprised she never called me on it. To be fair I was attracted to her personality and that didn't stop me from thinking she was cute. While I thought I was succeeding in getting a relationship started, things didn't work out.

    • I doubt he is interesting in my personality because I have never really talked to him, but thanks for sharing your story, now I know some guys don't know how to show their interest :)

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  • It can be small, but has a nice curvy shape. But, he's a horny teenager, there's not much explanation required.

    • I see, but the guy is one of the most popular and one of the hottest, I mean, I'm sure he can get any girl so why is he so horny x)

    • Because guys are really horny in there teenage years, lol. Doesn't matter how popular he is or how hot he is, he will always be horny because of his hormones raging.

    • He doesn't try to be discreet because like you said he is confident he can get any girl.

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  • You don't need a huge ass for it to be a beautiful booty haha, it just needs to be round and perky. Obviously your ass is nice to some degree, I wouldn't be mad at guys for admiring it, if they cat call at you or touch you, obviously you should report them or something.

    • Oh they can admire it as long as I don't feel uncomfortable because they whisper or worse catcall

    • Ya, you should try to find some witty comeback if they cat call you again. I'm always checking out girls butts like most guys, but at least I'm polite and subtle about it lol. It is rude to make it so obvious, you should try something to stop it.

    • I usually prefer to ignore them but if it goes too far, I'll do something. They don't touch me but, one day, they were walking really close behind me - ok I walk slow - but there was enough space to walk past me x)

  • I don't do stuff like this but a lot of times the clothing you wear is the reason you get attention. Maybe dress more moderately if you aren't. Guys do that stuff typically as do girls. Just get used to it

    • Sorry to answer only know but I don't know if it's the clothes I wear different jeand and it seems like whatever I wear, he's gonna check my ass out Even last day, I've been to the hairdresser and buy new clothes so I look different even from the back, and I caught him looking at it in a crowded room as he was walking x)

  • because he likes small asses... not every guy likes big ones LOL

    • I learnt something there x)

  • your ass must be phenomenal.

    • I doubt it ;D You know, I once heard a guy rating my ass a '3', another a '5' so x)

  • I actually wrote in some post about such behavior just can't remember which one. They just want to be more of a man or something like that. It's also one of the ways to find a love interest nowadays. They check how you look then if they like it they try to get you. It's all psychology. Could describe a little bit clearer but it's 22:40 and I am very sleepy so it's difficult to think no such a topic. But I hope you can understand at least something.

  • Why does a guy ever look at a butt?

    • I can understand that a man look at a butt, check it out, that's natural. But everytime the ass of the same girl. At least, if he can be discreet.

    • He likes your butt. How do you know he's not looking at others?

    • Oh, you didn't understand, I meant he always looks at my butt (other girls I don't know and don't care). I thought if you check it out once or twice but everytime you have the opportunity.. X)

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  • Maybe you have "please check my ass" sign on your ass or behind you. Or simply a funny pic of your ass online making him want to look at it.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JSoMNE09Xuk&app=desktop

    • I don't think so for both answers because, first, all girls wear the same type of jeans as me so, it doesn't make my ass look different from others and it's small second, I just hope no and most of the time, I check out behind me, that's also why I caught these guys haha :D

    • Be proud. put your ass in the air put your ass up in the air put your ass in the air put your ass up in the air put your ass in the air put your ass up in the air put your ass in the air move around like you don't care (repeat x4) like you don't care put your ass in the air

    • by the way je parle francais aussi ;) ms france.

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  • Hmm why do you think? He likes it.

    • That's clear, thanks

  • Teenage boys are stupid, that's why I never dated until I was 17, and then just with guys older than me -.-.

    • I agree with you ;) The guys I talk about are actually 16 and 17

  • They think you have a nice butt. That's really all there is to it.

    • Even if it's small? They look like huge pervs when I walk past them, you should see their face, sometimes, it's creepy and it seems like they don't care

    • That's because they don't care, and yes, a butt doesn't have to be big to turn heads.

    • I thought the contrary, but thanks to your man's point of view, I understand better ;) So they really want to look like they're so horny that they can't be discreet? Is it only to look or to, one day, sleep with the girl? Or to make her feel uncomfortable?

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  • He's looking at it wishing he could suck on it. You think it's too small, he seems to like it.

    His friend might be a jerk but it sounds like this guy is more respectful because he has a thing for you.

    • He used to have a thing for me but I was too slow at understanding so he moved on as he is the popular hot guy who can get any girl The thing which is funny is that he still looks at my body, physical attraction never ends? Oh I know his friend is a total jerk ;)

    • No, it doesn't end, you haven't somehow become uglier since he had a thing for you! So what if he can get any girl? He finds *you* attractive. Also, little butts are very cute. Not every guy wants a big fat badonkadonk!

    • You really helped me, thanks :)

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  • Though not big, you must be having a beautiful ass which is a turn on for the boy. He looks at it kos your ass sexually charges him and he wants to feel or have it. Probably he will imagine your naked ass and fantasize it too ;)

  • What can I say, you must have an attractive ass. Can't think of another reason why he'd stare.

    • After all the answers I read, guys who like small ass exist, so it must be attractive to them I don't know But why do they whisper and are so obvious? And the second guy (the one who has catcalled me before) really made me feel uncomfortable, does he know how I feel?

    • Gossiping and dissing are things you most likely will face in your highschool life and possibly in your career life later on. It's annoying but it's normal, you can either ignore it or make it get to your head. Just convince yourself that they make such actions because they are jealous of you its a good way to keep your confidence unshaken. xD

    • Guys jealous of me? What do they want exactly? The same boobs? haha x) Oh, don't worry, I ignore all this kind of people if I can ;)

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  • because he likes looking at your ass?

    • Yes but why doesn't he try to be discreet?

    • i dont fucking know

  • Because your ass is nicer than the one in my pic

    • I doubt it haha ;D

    • Haha :) But honestly that guy seems like a player... try and find a nice honest guy like me that would respect you

    • Don't worry, I know he is ;) He is also the hot and popular guy so I guess he can get any girl

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