This whole question is one giant mindfuck.
"Why do unattractive guys do this?"
Do what? Why do unattractive guys not be more attractive when they approach you?
"have all experienced that the guys that show interest are unattractive"
Women report 80% of guys as less than average attractiveness. Chances are that they're average guys.
"I'm just above average according to hot or not"
Like any system that rates pictures, women's pictures are rated higher than is realistic, and guys' are rated lower than is realistic. You're probably more average than you think.
The reason guys are approaching you is because you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. The reason you're "out of their league" is because your self-image is probably overly high, and your standards for men are also overly high.
Statistically, most people are average. That probably includes you. If you're being approached all the time by average guys, it's probably because you're average yourself.
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Sounds like you're way up your own ass, to put it bluntly. To be upset with guys for committing the sin of being unattractive is akin to being upset with someone for being born with a certain skin color. Guys can't help what they look like for the most part. You should actually be flattered that anyone was attracted to you in the first place.
It's girls like you who ensure that most girls hardly get approached at all. You reject guys who are interested in a bitchy way (a safe assumption based on the tone of your question) and they start to believe that they can't win and shouldn't even try. That's why GAG is rife with "why doesn't he approach me" questions from frustrated girls.
Because hot guys usually go for hot girls. You are not hot therefore you get the guys in the bottom threshold. Plus there are more average-ugly men in the world than attractive men.
Because the hottest guys are
1) gay
2) have high standards
3) or just like hot guys want to be worshipped. An average or ugly man will do that
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So called unattractive guys need to be proactive because hot chicks like yourself? won't fall in their lap. If they did they would be single, and very frustrated. Hot guys if you will, have more options, and won't need to come to you because it. So next time Toad Boy approaches you, just know he is just trying to survive, politely turn him down and walk away.
At your age you have a 3-5 year window. Better change that perception if the good looking and successful men aren't coming to you now in your physical prime because in 3-5 years that window is, basically, over. People will be pissed that I said this but it's nearly 100% true in most cases for men. There is always.. ALWAYS a better and younger good looking girl coming off the plane to replace the one who believes herself to be more important than she is.
In my experience, it's easier for men to judge women's attractiveness than men's attractiveness (including their own). It simply could be that the guys don't realize you will find them unattractive?
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