And then there's also boys who are not good-looking, and they're not shy, they put on this whole 'loud guy' act. They're not the least bit shy, which is confusing, because I'm not sure whether they secretly are shy, and they're just covering it up, or because they just figure they have nothing to lose.
Do boys who get shy just think of women, as a different race/species altogether lol? I know girls who act like this also, they talk about boys as though they're their own race, and I'll be thinking... they're human beings too! Why do you talk about them as though they're aliens?
So I value the company of men, provided they are respectful, and understanding of the fact that I am not remotely interested in them, but am seeking friendship. I do respect their shyness, because it is indicative of respect that they have for me, but I wish they stopped seeing me as a 'girl,' and more of a buddy.
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