What's wrong with kicking a man in the nuts after he slaps my ass?

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So I've seen many guys saying is totally fine to hit a woman back.
she slaps a guy and then he slams her to the floor and break her bones.
According to men slap on the face and breaking someone bones is totally equal.

So why the hell men get so angry and want to hit me after I kicked them if THEY are the ones who started harassing me?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You are afraid of slapping a guy's face because you're afraid he'll behave violently. So your plan is to kick him in the nuts (wrongly assuming that will incapacitate him, while violent yourself) and instead get him enraged and give him a very good reason to behave violently to you? Smart girl.

Hitting a guy in the nuts has a chance to ruin his ability to have kids, it hurts incredibly, and since it's such a delicate area, there is a very real chance of causing potentially life-threatening internal bleeding. Slapping an ass causes embarrassment. Get a sense of proportion, dear. Do you think such an extreme response from you wouldn't encourage him to beat you into the pavement? Or, if he's the controlled type, have you arrested for assault and take you to court for additional civil suits?

And where are you putting words in guys' mouths that getting slapped across the face means he gets to break her bones? I haven't seen or heard that. Maybe you are unfairly representing someone's position and acting out like a spoiled child?

As for getting slapped on the ass--simply scolding the guy and telling him to fuck off almost always does the trick.

Bottom line: don't behave violently toward someone, they won't behave violently toward you. Keep your hands to yourself like a big girl.

reptocarl · Accepted Answer

The rule has pretty much always been keep your hands to yourself. Just because you're a woman doesn't give you carte Blanche to use physical violence. It doesn't matter how big the argument you're having. For me if you hit, slap, kick me in anger when I didn't touch you then you're no longer a lady and are saying you can take it like a man

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

NOTHING ! show him what it feels like when someone touches you without your consent

and yea i agree with what you said (about hitting women back) ... a lot of men are becoming faggots these days... disgusting
and its a stupid logic really... thats like saying my puppy bit me and it broke the skin, i should cut him/her too ! if they can cut my skin then they can also take a cutting

most men have this sense of entitlement and victim mentality at the same time...

im honestly glad that they are not majority these days and most men are actual men <3 chivalrous and act gentleman like ^_^
, the fags are just the little spoiled boys lol

Vesuvius87 · Accepted Answer

Who are you hanging around with and what's wrong with this generation?
It's never ok for anyone (man or woman) to use excessive force just because they felt irritated and embarrassed or got their ego bruised.

Both the man (punching and breaking bones after a slap in the face) and woman (kicking the guy in balls after he was a jerk) in your examples are wrong in their reply. Both of them are people I would seriously want to get away from. It tells me they both need to take anger management classes.

The guy doing the slap in the ass needs to get charged with an assault charge... same as the girl slapping in the face.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm not a fan of violence in general. I really don't think it's okay for anyone to hit anyone. But yes, the boys in the example you gave are hypocritical.

And to the people who think that a slap on the ass is nothing: actually its sexual harassment. If some guy slapped my ass at school I wouldn't hit him back, but I would go report him. But if a stranger on the street slapped my ass, then yeah I would totally fight him back. I need to protect myself, he could be trying to rape me.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You only kick a guy in the balls if it's purely self defense in a serious attack not if you guys are playing around and he slaps your butt and you strike back with a kick in the nuts, that's not a joke.

Shyguy_1988 · Answer

I never think a man should hit a girl, they are smaller and more delicate, what kind of guys are you hanging around that don't respect girls? More power to you, if a guy slaps your ass, you have the right to kick him in the nuts, he just sexually harassed you and needs to accept the consequences.

NateInAk · Answer

Guys have to respond intelligently. I get slapped, I'm willing to slap back, not lay her out with a full punch, whereas if she's trying to kick me in the groin all bets are off.
Let's just not touch each other till we get to know each other shall we?

Theguyoverthere · Answer

I am guessing they don't feel that slapping an ass is meant to "hurt" you so they feel that deliberately harming their nuts is out of line even though they're disrespecting the girl. Guys who slap random girls butts are immature and annoying to hangout with but I don't feel that going that extreme I'd going to help the case any. To get to a point where you are kicking a guy in the nuts would mean you were pushed to a very extreme point.

evenlift · Answer

There's nothing wrong with it.

If any specific man tells you that it would be OK for him to hit back a woman who slaps him, but he then gets angry when he gets hit back by a woman he slaps, then he is a hypocrite. But, if one man says something and then another man says something different, that's not hypocrisy. They are not the same person!

heavensgift2girls · Answer

I don't know any guy that thinks slamming a woman to the floor and breaking her bones is a reasonable response to a slap. That would be overkill. Kicking a guy in the nuts is also overkill for slapping an ass.

Jbunch · Answer

Over generalizations and exaggerations to prove your point won't work here! What kind of man slams a woman to the ground after she slaps him? Because I have not heard of a normal, sane man doing this.

BlendedAmorosity · Answer

Kicking him in his nuts is very over rated. You may cancel his ability to have children for the rest of his life. Hit him back.. backhand him.. whatever, just not where the magic happens.

Katy16 · Answer

Because those guys are stupid. If a guy does that there is nothing wrong with kicking him, he deserves it.

GuntherLeCroix · Answer

Nothing wrong with it... go for it.

It's highly unlikely that you will do any serious damage to him.

I'll let you in on a secret... most men are giant p*ssies when it comes to their junk. Hence most of the replies here. It hurts and it humiliating... but we get over it... and maybe we even learn to keep ours hands to ourselves.

maroonbro · Answer

He hit you, you hit him back, he hits you again, you hit him back again, don't try the I'm physically weak cause I'm a woman stuff, there are countless ways to beat a guy up and break his bone

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

because he slapped your ass. im betting it was sexual, not violent assault.

Darkkniight · Answer

Well if he slaps your ass he's hardly giving you serious damage I would personally slap him across the face!

LauraMarx · Answer

they are brutally violent misogynists, I think is the thing

madhatters4 · Answer

when a child hits a kid because he says he took his toy do we say it's ok you hit them?

yaddayaddayadda02 · Answer

I don't know., How about we both keep our hands to ourselves unless I take you out to dinner first.

Seppelson · Answer

It's like shooting someone with a gun when he said asshole to you I guess.

Anonymous · Answer

i agree if he harass u physically then you must beat the living lights out of him..

kittykatg · Answer

Why stoop to their level?

Gagaqueen · Answer

You have to find a different spot.

AaBbCcDdEeFfGgHhMICE · Answer

Nothing wrong with it.

What's wrong with kicking a man in the nuts after he slaps my ass?

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