there is this guy in my dance class, and he really likes me is quite obvious and my freinds think he likes me too. but I really don't like him, I... Show More
How to reject a guy nicely?
What Guys Said 2
See, the problem is that because people want to be nice in rejection, it never hits the mark.
I'm not saying be rude, but the focus should be about being direct.
So say it like this:
"You are a very nice guy, and you are deserving of someone who will respect and honor that about you. I don't have those types of feelings for you, so thank you for your efforts, but I am not interested."
It's nice enough, but it's direct, to the point and leaves no room for question.
first of all I respect you, not lots of girls give a damn what a guy feels, even if he was nice.
well, I think you should wait for him to "ask you out" or "tell you that he does"
then you say "well (name here), you are a very very nice guy, and you deserve the best girl out there. I just want to tell you that I have absolutely nothing towards you, I could say yes and break ur heart, or I could've said no in a very rude way, but I'm trying and I hope you understand that I don't see anything between me and you. and don't ever think that its about you, you are a very very nice guy, its just that I'm not interested"
give him a hug and say, "hey, lets go practice dancing in class" y'know just anything to make him feel that ur friendly and all that
*lol that's what I said to almost 6 girls who somehow had the balls to come and ask me out, it always works! good luck
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