Why do guys flirt with ugly girls?

[Anonymous]

Why do guys flirt with ugly girls?

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Here, the ugly girl is me.

[Anonymous]

Well everyone blame me when I had my gf bcoz I look like andy Garcia and she wasn't beautiful and older than me by 8 years but let me tell u y I choose that girl and what happened back then

I saw 3 beautiful young girl and I go directly to the 2 of them and did conversation but they reject me the third one I talked to her and I liked her after week sent her flower but again she reject me at that point I said wtf is this!!

I know it's not about beauty but in general the not beautiful girl better and tooooooo easy to get

So I choose that not beautiful girl and I wasn't intrested but I just want gf in my life that time but after 1 month I fall in love with her and I was faithful to her

So y I would choose not beautiful bcoz easy to get and same quality as the beautiful and maybe her personality much more better than beautiful girl

When u say ugly it come to my mind girl with broken teeth and bad smell
But not beautiful girl just not too beautiful like they're moderate beauty not beautiful not ugly just normal

But for me I would never ever date ugly girl

Ugly meaning vary from person to person

Post pic what ugly mean based on ur mind

[Asker]

I don't have broken teeth or bad smell. I just don't like my overall appearance that much. I don't even know what ugly is to me, but I don't have very high thoughts about myself. Especially after getting rejected by the guy I like, it makes sense that I am not good looking, maybe.

[Opinion Owner]

Rejected by 1 dosent mean u r ugly
And maybe he have his excuse y not
And his not the one

U dont like how u look change its easy some clothes n make up will do magic effect

[Asker]

I already wear cute dresses but I am not a fan of make up.

[Starrk]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I can't count how many times I have fell in love with a girl and believed she was extremely beautiful, only for my friends to later say that she was average at best or someone they wouldn't even look at. So everyone has a different perspective on what they believe is beautiful or ugly. Just because you view yourself as ugly doesn't mean everyone else will agree with you.

[Asker]

But didn't you feel more attracted to other gorgeous girls?

[Starrk]

Not exactly, because when I fell for those supposable ''average'' girls it was a combination of the way they look and their personality. When I find a girl with that great combination, then she instantly becomes the most beautiful women in the world to me. Now don't get me wrong, there were other gorgeous girls around who were also attractive, but I didn't put them nowhere near the pedestal that I did those ''average'' girls, because those other gorgeous girls were just missing something that the other girls had. Most likely a good or relatable personality.

I don't care how beautiful or how much a girl may look like Kim Kardashian, if she possess a personality or attitude that I find to be a turn off, then she instantly falls down 4 levels in terms of attractiveness.

[Asker]

Ohh... got you. :)

[Mikaychay95]

I think you're being hard on yourself and too self critical. Has anyone ever called you ugly? Thoughout middle school my "best friend" would come up to me and tell me all of the guys who rated me number one of the ugliest girl in our grade list. That made me feel ugly for years now I know I don't look anything like that anymore and I'm a lot more confident in the way I look. Anyway, I doubt your ugly if guys are giving you that kind of attention

[Asker]

I know I have changed a lot, but it's only in recent times that guys have started giving me a bit more attention. Earlier, I used to get ignored.

[Mikaychay95]

I know the feeling, I was you once

[beerme01]

Makes me sad that you think that you're not worth of being flirted with and call yourself ugly. The most physically attractive person can actually be too ugly to flirt with, but looks have nothing to do with it. Stop telling yourself your ugly and start focusing on the things you like about yourself. A guy should be so lucky to flirt with you. Hope you start seeing things differently.

[LittleSally]

Maybe what you consider 'ugly' they think is quite attractive?

[Asker]

I am considering myself as 'ugly' so how could I be attractive to them, I am not.

[LittleSally]

Well you're not attractive in your mind, but you're attractive in their mind.

[Asker]

No really, I am not. I have two rabbit teeth. I am skinny. I wear glasses.

[SomeoneImportant]

Someone needs a self esteem boost. Whether or not someone is considered attractive, depends on an individuals taste. I've had the hots for girls who my friends thought were unattractive. Also, some guys go after girls who they think are ugly because they think they will get in their pants easier.

[Asker]

I don't even flirt back, so I don't get why anyone would consider me easy.

[SomeoneImportant]

That doesn't really matter, if you come off as a girl with low self esteem in person, like you have here, then you are prone to these types of guys.

[xPoison]

Because ugly girls need love too and because whats ugly in your eyes is hot in this...

What kind of question is this my gosh lol

[xPoison]

In theirs*

[Asker]

But I AM ugly, so there's no point in flirting with me when you don't want to like me, right?

[xPoison]

YOU feel ugly. I'm sure you're not even ugly.

Guys can do it for several reason
1. They actually find you attractive
2. They do it for fun or they can be making fun of you
3. They feel you need an ego boost so that are trying to help you out in that aspect
4. They do find you ugly but at this point they are desperate and they want some sexual favor. Think think it'll be easier getting it from you since they think you'll take anything

[Asker]

2, 3 and 4 point sounds right. Thanks!

[xPoison]

If you have different guys flirting with you at DIFFERENT places, I doubt that you're ugly

[xPoison]

I'm sure all of them dont gather up in group meetings to discuss how they are going to flirt with you and make you think you're attractive..-.- when they think that themselves that i are

[WhoTheHellKnows]

Maybe those girls aren't ugly to them. Or maybe those "ugly" girls have awesome personalities. I'm sure there a few good reason to flirt with them

[Asker]

I am ugly, and I have a boring personality. Doesn't seem too convincing.

[WhoTheHellKnows]

Lol who are you to judge that in yourself? :)
Just because you think you're ugly doesn't mean guys do

[Asker]

But I seriously don't think I am ugly. Maybe I am sweet that's why guys flirt with me to pass their time?

[WhoTheHellKnows]

They probably don't think you're ugly either which is why they flirt with you :)

[WhiteRaven]

Beauty and ugliness is relative and dependent on someone's taste; society doesn't determine the standard

[Asker]

But if I think that I am ugly and have boring personality, I don't know how anyone else can see the good in me.

[WhiteRaven]

You just have to be confident about who you are. You are the protagonist of your life; don't make yourself the villain.

Many people find themselves boring, but their partner likes what they do because they seem passionate about it. Boring doesn't mean not having something to do constantly; it means not liking to do anything. If you have a passion and hobbies, you are not boring. I have friends who are only into video games and girls dont find them boring because they are passionate about it and are willing to show them how to play.

[Asker]

I have passions and hobbies, but I thought guys are visual creatures.

[WhiteRaven]

The appearance is the only initial motivator sometimes. What keeps the interest is the personality and confidence most of the time. Because you think you are ugly doesn't mean you are. if you dont mind, send me a photo and i will assess

[Asker]

I can't send photos here :( But thanks for whatever you wrote..

[WhiteRaven]

you can pm me. upload it on some file sharing website or something

[meatballs21]

You have a low opinion of yourself, while the guy probably finds you cute. You can just keep being a downer and you'll drive him away soon enough.

[Asker]

But it's also possible that he does that because he doesn't have anyone to pass his time with.

[meatballs21]

That's the low opinion speaking again - you're assuming the worst and that it's all because you suck. You don't know that to be true.

[been_waiting]

Just because you think they're ugly doesn't think all guys will

[Asker]

I am asking about myself. -_- I think I am ugly or below average, so I don't get why guys flirt.

[been_waiting]

This applies to you too. You are attractive to some people

[Asker]

But if you lack the confidence, no one would find you attractive.

[been_waiting]

Untrue

[David95]

I used to do it sometimes when I was like 16 just because it makes the girl laugh so I find no harm in it.

[Asker]

Did any girl fall for you?

[David95]

yeah lol, but I would always say I had a GF. To me putting a smile on someone's face is a great feeling no matter how they look

[aamy811]

Is putting a smile on their face worth it, if they're just going to cry later

[Krushhbrownies]

What if you're actually a pretty girl and just saying you're ugly to yourself because you're self conscious.

[Asker]

No, instances have happened in my life that made me think so,
My bff's bf used to treat me as inferior.
A guy I like rejected me

[Prof_Don]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... guys' taste in women varies ALOT! :)

[Anonymous]

You don't know what guys find attractive. Many girls don't.

[Asker]

Guys find pretty girls attractive, right? Who have cute faces and beautiful smiles.

[Opinion Owner]

Not always, but the point is that you (like most girls) don't know what "pretty" means to a guy.

[Asker]

Okay... so what is pretty as per you?

[Opinion Owner]

Different things. Small boobs, for example. Which is counter to what most of the mainstream media tells you men like. I like women who are curvy too. Have a bit of heft to them. That doesn't always go with the small boobed look but then hey, I can like more than one body type.

Mostly it's the personality that attracts me anyway. A girl who is smart, confident, funny with a dark evil sense of humour. Those things matter to me.

[Anonymous]

Good question.

Perhaps it gives them the feeling of superiority and control over certain girl?

[Asker]

Seems like so. Maybe they make sure their flirting skills are sharp enough so they practice on ugly girls.

[medical2523]

Sounds like someone is hatin but its good the dude dosent have that opinion of the girl

[Asker]

I am not hating. I am asking, considering myself as 'ugly'

[LenaK]

Can you explain what you mean?

[medical2523]

Well isn't it good that means your not as ugly as you think

[Asker]

You are saying, "Sounds like someone's hating."
I am not hating on anyone.

[medical2523]

I know I said that maybe your not as ugly as you think

[scrap422]

Where's the pic I'm sure you are food looking messages it too me sweetie

[TheDevilInside]

Who the hell are you to call another girl "ugly"?

[Asker]

I am calling myself ugly. I didn't mention it up there because one or other gager would certainly have given an answer regarding something like, "You are not ugly, and all"

[TheDevilInside]

lol sweety, there are gorgrous girls who think they're ugly, and there are less attractive girls who think they're gorgeous. Our own perspectives on our own attractiveness is sometimes so screwed. Just be glad for the guys who flirt with you, and hopefully after some time it will make you think that "hey, maybe I'm not that ugly".

[Asker]

:O Every girl has mirror to see if they are ugly or not.

[TheDevilInside]

yeah but the image you see there is so distorted by your own insecurities

[Asker]

When I was in high school, my best friend's bf used to introduce everyone from our friend circle to his friends but not me. He was quite superficial, and always considered me quite inferior.

[TheDevilInside]

Are you going to let one stupid douchebag ruin your life? Are you willing to give him that much control over you?

[Anonymous]

Because flirting is fun. Even with ugly people.

[Asker]

But won't you lead on ugly people in that way?

[Opinion Owner]

Who cares. They're ugly.

[Asker]

So, no one cares about an ugly person. :(

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I do. I don't care if someone is ugly. I like em all! Pretty, Ugly, Fugly.. don't matta! but i'm just trying to help you see if from the guys point of view.

[Superduper43]

I flirt with ugly guys. It's just being friendly

[Asker]

Don't you think it would give them a bad impression.

[LenaK]

@Superduper43:
I don't think it is friendly. I think it is cruel...

[Superduper43]

That's your opinion. Don't be so sensitive homie

[Anonymous]

Maybe because they aren't bitches..