Why are guys attractive when they are tired?

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What is so attractive about a guy who is tired. I have a colleague who I'm not attracted to at all. We don't talk much, just small talk that doesn't last longer then 5 minutes. I saw him the other day and he ordered some breakfast (I work in a restaurant), we talked for a bit but you can tell he was super tired, he had dark circles under his eyes, his voice sounded sleepy and he seemed a lot more calm and vulnerable then his usual self. I was instantly tuned on by him soo much! And I am not attracted to this guy whatsoever. What is it about guys who are tired that makes them so hot? I have noticed this a lot, tired guys just become ten times more attractive then when they are not.

523206720 · Accepted Answer

I think it's because when they are tired they seem more passive, submissive, and co-operative and co-operative guys are attractive to a lot of people. For me it's compassion. He could be a billionaire, or look like the most beautiful person in the world but if he is lacking in compassion then I will not find attractive. And same if he is broke but has a lot of compassion for others, I will be instantly attracted to him.

Inlovewith1402 · Accepted Answer

Hahahah I feel you! But I'm not attracted to a guy when he is tired if I'm normally not attracted to him. But if I generally find a guy really hot, him being tired is a double turn on!

WhaChaChaKing · Accepted Answer

Some people are just attracted to that. Tired eyes, deep/rusty voice, and maybe messy hair. I agree with you, I like Dane DeHaan and he always looks exhausted. His voice is hot too.

Imtheone88 · Accepted Answer

Yea this was a study actually, men are attracted to happier women but women are attracted to unhappy man... You know the kinda depressed, heavy smoking, don't give a shot about anything type if guys... Their attractive to girls.

DodgersGM · Accepted Answer

Some guys I guess speak more deeply, they are more direct and to the point because they're tired.  Or maybe it's because they seem softer and the instinct to nurture them kicks in? Who knows. LOL

findingdreamland · Answer

You got some strong motherly instinct maybe? You want to take care of them? Maybe they seem more vulnerable? Interesting , but it seems; it works for you :)

cavmanier · Answer

You might like me then lol. No but I think I'm more calm when I'm rested. My mind works so much better.

kain7th · Answer

Wow, i would love to be appreciated more for being tired lol! but i think like @findingdreamland says i think it may just be a strong motherly instinct inside you to want to take care of a guy who's tired

Anonymous · Answer

You like sucking the life out of us. It makes you happy.

Klaatu51 · Answer

how's that possible? when you're tired you look like shit LOL

Prof_Don · Answer

... because u assume he was hard at work at something that is making him tired, and the idea of a man working, is a turn on to your primal brain.

thatsjustme1 · Answer

Just by the looks of him or because you were talking to him and he was open than usual?

Kythe · Answer

Apparently, men everywhere need to get less sleep.

Balcazaurus · Answer

This, I have never heard of.

Why are guys attractive when they are tired?

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