So this guy I like told me I had big boobs and that they're nice, should I be worried he only likes me for my boobs?

So this guy I like and have been talking to for almost a year now told me I had big boobs and that they were nice. I've been told I have big boobs by other guys and some girls too. But I'm just worried that he only talks to me because of them. Like he says I'm different than most girls because I'm pretty and I keep to myself and then he mentioned my boobs again. Like I know the guy can be really nice and sweet... But should I be worried?
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He knows I'm not the type of chick to do anything sexual. I'm one of those that want to stay a virgin until I find the one I love and want to be with. He's made passes but I've always shut them down. Mickey of course. And he's respected that... I think. He jut does it as a joke most of the time anyway.
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  • He's stuck on complimenting boobs and he's to be sweet? Man.. Was hitting on girls this easy for me back then?
    If I was to approach s girl and stared at her boobs while complimenting it.. I wonder how well would that work for me..

    Anyways to answer u.. He's a boy.. He's into u because of his sexual desires.. Should u be worried? That depends.. Are u ok with him liking u for sexual desires only?

    • Well like he doesn't just always talk about my boobs. He's actually really nice when he wants to be. I mean it's not a ba thing but it can get annoying especially when other dudes have told me they like boobs or that I have a nice rack... It does bother, because I feel most guys only talk to me because my boobs. Thanks though. :)

    • She already liked him I assume. That's why he gets a pass lol

    • Here's the thing.. If his interest in u was in high level of romance.. The boobs wouldn't be what he compliments u on.. Not yet anyways.. Sexual desires of interest? Obviously yes.. If his romance level was high then he'll be smitten by other features u carry.. That warms up to his heart The way u laugh? Or stare st him? The smile or stunning eyes.. I think u get my point

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  • Unfortunately it is one of those things that won't go away. We all have one or two features about us that stand out and it is normal to think like you are right now. Since the first time he commented on your boobs, does he mention it all the time. When you are around him does he stare. Does he ask you about yourself

    • Well, he never used to stare at them. But I haven't seen him for maybe two months but we still keep in touch through snapchat. It was just tonight, he stated I had nice boobs. Like I me roomed before I've had random guys I don't know tell me I have nice boobs but they didn't mean anything cause I was meet going to see them again. But with him, it's different because I like him. He doesn't particularly stare at them when we talk, we were uniforms at my high school though. But he normally keeps eye contact.

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  • A man can appreciate large bosoms without being vulgar and crass.

    Given your age, he most likely is just another hormonal teen looking to blow his load. "No means yes" is still a very common belief and he's probably hoping that you'll give in at some point.

    If a guy shows interest and openly comments on your tits, that's pretty much a guarantee he only wants to hit it and quit it.

    • Yea. I see your point. But lord knows I'm not going to be giving in at any point within whatever kind relationship we have. ;) thanks!

    • Yep. If he was genuinely into you as a person, he wouldn't risk making such comments, since that could potentially destroy his chances of having a meaningful relationship.

    • The thing is, he's always joked about shit like that. I think he thinks he's just being funny he's he asked weird shit like that before. I'm pretty sure actually since I've known him. I'm not entirely sure why I still like him. Lolol it's a mystery to me. Thanks for your help.!

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  • you guys have been talking for a year? howcome u guys haven't dated? lol and yeah tbh i think if he keeps on mentioning ur boobs then he's just being nice and telling you your pretty to get inside your pants and boobs lol

    • Yea that's what I was afraid of. I don't know if he sees me that way. He can be really nice, like not just to be but to everyone. I've had a crush on him for a while... I just don't think he sees me that way even though he called me pretty. He's sort of part of the popular crowd... I keep to myself but I know most of the people at my high school. I used to be a cheerleader for a short time also. He can have any girl so why does he go after me? Thanks for your advice. Lolol

    • dude just dont do anything stupid lol cx dont be easy on him, or else he'll think of u as a bootycall, thats what happened to me,... go out with him before u start doing stuff with him lol, and if he tries to touch u or anything while you guys aren't anything, then YES fuck that nigga he's just using u; you're welcome (:

    • Well thanks! But he knows I'm not that type of girl, like he's made passes at me sexual wise but I've turned them all down.

  • Pretty 100 % he likes you because the guy I have a crush on likes to tell me I have nice boobs also lol

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  • Probably yes, but why are you worried? Everybody have some attractive qualities, you got boobs.

  • How long have you been seeing him?

    • We're not dating or anything. We're friends, and I have crush on him but we've been talking since maybe Mayish... I think. We go to the same high school, we actually used to be locker neighbours.

    • How did he say it? Was it like a complement? Or more like teasing and flirting?

    • I think it might have been in between. Because after he said that he told me he toughy I was pretty. So... I don't know how a guy's brain works. That's why you're helping me out. Lolol

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  • Dude, boobs are awesome.

    Do you really think he doesn't appreciate other layers of you after all this time, and after all this stuff you've shared?

  • Just cuz a guy likes your boobs doesn't mean that's the ONLY reason he likes you. Course it is pretty weird he was just like hey nice badonkadonks!

    • Badonkadonks? Bahaha thank you. That so made my night. 😂🙏 you are my new favourite person I think. Happy new year!

    • Glad to lol

    • Happy new year

  • Of course not... just because he likes your boobs, doesn't mean that he doesn't like other qualities about you!

  • Every guy you meet will only like you because of your physical features. It's hormones, they overpower guys that age.

  • Yeah, probably.

  • Testosterone in guys. It's completely normal, I assure you.

  • LOL! How big are they? If you've known him for awhile then it sounds like he probably likes more than just your boobs! Remember that he can like a lot about your (your personality, etc.) AND still like your body.

    • Uhh lets just say between a c and d. Lolol you can think whatever. I honestly don't think they're that big. But apparently guys do. Lolol thanks for the reassurance though. :)

    • Between C and D isn't huge, but if you're small otherwise, it'll be on the bigger side. And of course, depending on shape and firmness they could be very nice aside from their size. At any rate--you're more than your boobs, but you shouldn't be afraid of having a nice pair! Good luck!

  • Yea probably.. he is one of those jerks. the ones who r only interested in sex -.- just try to find a genuine guy. i mean u guys are not even dating yet but he says 'nice boobs' wtf lol. he just wants an easy card for the V

  • I don't know the guy. Whatever the rest of these answers say are just speculation and hot air.