What do you do when his words don't match his actions?

[Anonymous]

For the last 2-3 years, my man has barely touched me. He doesn't hug me, we kiss a couple of times a day but don't make out anymore. I am really affectionate, but when I try to snuggle up to him, he pushes me away or walks off. I ask him about and he says he doesn't know why he does it, but it has nothing to do with me. WTH does that mean? I am soooo lonely. I don't want to cheat on him, but I don't want to go the rest of my life without having my physical needs met, either. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

Maybe dress up a little sexy and romancehim to remind him why he fail in love with you.

[Anonymous]

leave him then, its not working out, tell him 'I would rather leave u than cheat on u'

[Asker]

Don't you think it's selfish to divorce him, though, and put our children through all of that, just because of something on my wish list? Our relationship is great otherwise. I just get tired of feeling lonely.

[Opinion Owner]

tell him that then! u didn't say u were married to him

[Asker]

I have told him that, and nothing changes.

[SteamBuns]

He's trying to find a way to tell you it isn't working out anymore

[Asker]

Then why won't he just say it? Is 'I'm just not that into you anymore' really that hard to vocalize? I'm sure there's probably even a Hallmark card for that. Why drag it out and keep denying it?