Early this morning (January 1st), at 6am, this guy who's been ignoring all my text messages and went so far as to blacklist my number on his phone, texted me asking "awake?" Just that one word.
This guy was someone I saw for 2 months from August, and then he stopped talking to me when he got angry at me, but failed to explain to me what he was angry about, which lead me to bombard him with messages. -- Understandably he blocked me on his phone and declined to entertain my messages with any replies or sign of life.
Over the past 3 months I have been sending him texts every few days. This is because I have no clue what I did wrong that turned him from very-keen to very-non-existent-towards me. 3 days before New Year's, I texted him, poking fun at myself about how obsessed I appeared about him, and pointing out that if something drove such a strong rift between us it was but a misunderstanding and we would definitely be able to talk through and iron out a misunderstanding and at the least cease to be enemies in cold war.
No sign of life from him for 3 days. Till new year's day. 6 hours after the midnight countdown, at 6am, he texted me: "Awake?"
Immediately, since i was next to my phone, I texted a reply "yeah".
40 minutes later, he replies, "Nvm. Shouldn't have asked."
A couple minutes later I replied, "I'm kinda glad you did anyway. Happy new year :)"
No replies from him at all, as usual and as expected.
What did he want from me? He refused to have sex with me when he first decided (after 2 months of fucking each others brains out) that he doesn't think anything romantic is gonna happen between us any more. Back then he said it would be bad for me emotionally, and he implied that it was because he cared about me that he didn't want me to visit him because he would try to have sex, and if I managed to resist and deny him sex he wouldn't be so happy.
Did his new year's day text suggest that he's at least thinking of me?
This guy was someone I saw for 2 months from August, and then he stopped talking to me when he got angry at me, but failed to explain to me what he was angry about, which lead me to bombard him with messages. -- Understandably he blocked me on his phone and declined to entertain my messages with any replies or sign of life.
Over the past 3 months I have been sending him texts every few days. This is because I have no clue what I did wrong that turned him from very-keen to very-non-existent-towards me. 3 days before New Year's, I texted him, poking fun at myself about how obsessed I appeared about him, and pointing out that if something drove such a strong rift between us it was but a misunderstanding and we would definitely be able to talk through and iron out a misunderstanding and at the least cease to be enemies in cold war.
No sign of life from him for 3 days. Till new year's day. 6 hours after the midnight countdown, at 6am, he texted me: "Awake?"
Immediately, since i was next to my phone, I texted a reply "yeah".
40 minutes later, he replies, "Nvm. Shouldn't have asked."
A couple minutes later I replied, "I'm kinda glad you did anyway. Happy new year :)"
No replies from him at all, as usual and as expected.
What did he want from me? He refused to have sex with me when he first decided (after 2 months of fucking each others brains out) that he doesn't think anything romantic is gonna happen between us any more. Back then he said it would be bad for me emotionally, and he implied that it was because he cared about me that he didn't want me to visit him because he would try to have sex, and if I managed to resist and deny him sex he wouldn't be so happy.
Did his new year's day text suggest that he's at least thinking of me?
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Oh by the way, I've repeatedly reiterated to him that the loss of friendship hurt me most. I want to get back to talking with him the way we used to talk and have lots of laughs. I'm not looking for a boyfriend. But I want us to be friends. Badly. Badly want us to be friends. And i've messaged him a number of times about this. But I've also made it clear that i'm attracted to him and adore him and wouldn't mind being his girlfriend. (Initially I refused. He scared me - asked me too early.)
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