Do shy guys fantasize about girls the same?

[Anonymous]

I mean not just like sexual but do you take it further as you are sometimes more serious, at least from what I have heard. Like 10 years down the road.. kids... house etc? Or what kind of fantasy of girls and your crush do you have? Just curious...

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In relation to the girl you like.

[Longjacketanx]

Just the other day I put my crushes name with my last name. It didn't sound good together.
In conclusion I am soooo fuckin' girly

[Asker]

Awwww! I do that too! Put my name with his... I don't discount him though if it doesn't sound good. Not his fault. 😁

[Longjacketanx]

I also think about things a bit far down the line, like if we were to licve together. She wants to join the navy so I thought about that. And how after being single for the longest time I don't think I could survive a long distance relationship. Also she's white and I'm black so I have to think about other peoples prejudice's.

[Asker]

I like guys of other races too.

[Illusive_Man]

I can't speak for all the shy ones but I sometimes do when my mind is not occupied.

[Asker]

So if he's looking at me blankly... I can prob assume he's fantasizing of our future? Lol!

[Illusive_Man]

LOL , only he will know.

[Theshaft169]

It's called dreaming of your future and where you picture yourself.

[Asker]

But you do it picturing her in there?

[Theshaft169]

At times maybe a crush. Other times others.
A crush would be a lot of sex thoughts. Not so much the white picked fence. That's if I never slept with her or if she doesn't really know me.
You think a guy is crushing on you? He is thinking of doing the naughty first off. The un known is on his mind. He's likely pretending your some other he's been with

[Asker]

He hasn't had a gf or anything... Pretty sure he hasn't done it.

[Theshaft169]

Im fantasizing about this girl I saw this morning right now. Omg i so wanted to pull it out right there on the spot and do my thing.
Will have to finish thinking of her shortly.
That kinda what your getting at here about fantasizing of someone. My whle body shook with excitement. That's a first. What exciting thing. Wow

[Anonymous]

I don't think THAT far ahead, but I fantasize about how we would be as a couple.

[loveskittens]

I've done that. I condsider myself a shy person.

[Asker]

What kind?

[loveskittens]

Like future jobs, going to the same collage, living in an apartment or a condo.

[Asker]

With said girl?

[loveskittens]

Just whoever i have a crush on at the time.

[notverycreativeguy]

Eh, maybe, but not that extreme.

[Asker]

So what do you fantasize about with relation to her?

[notverycreativeguy]

To be honest, mostly the same as you, just without the kids. I just didn't want to sound too girly or such.