Do guys get boners every time they make out?

[Anonymous]

A friend of mine, who was always very flirty and touchy with me, suddenly kissed me and we ended up making out. He was hard the entire time.

I don't know if its normal for guys to get hard every time they make out or if its cause he really was attracted to me and couldnt help himself anymore.

do guys get boners cause of every girl they kiss?

[Orion1084]

Maybe not EVERY time, but most times, yes.

If my fiance started making out with me, I would be hard as a rock pretty much every time. If we're just kissing, though, not usually.

A kiss can be pretty benign, in most cases, whereas making out usually signals a guy's brain that he's going to have sex. Naturally, our bodies go into "boner mode" at the prospect of sex.

[Asker]

But he knows I plan to stay a virgin til marriage and he said that he respects that

[Orion1084]

I'm sure he does respect that, and I didn't mean to imply otherwise.

Bonkers are an autonomic response, though. While he consciously knows that making out won't lead to sex, the portion of his brain that controls erections doesn't. He has no control over that.

All his body knows is that he's engaging in a pleasure, potentially sexual experience, and it reacts accordingly, by making him hard.

[Orion1084]

*Boners, not bonkers

stupid phone

[Asker]

Well the making out very quickly progressed into more than that

[Drooogie4]

Yes.
I've been with my guy for a long time..
And still, he still does hahah , kinda flattering