TALL MEN u have some explaining to do. How in 2015 so many tall men still going for skinny short girls? Y are petite women so attractive to u MEN?

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I am not a short girl. I'm not a size 0. I love my body I love my curves. Only problem is that tall men r still only dating skinny minnies. Their all short n skinny. y tall men? R tall men afraid or intimidated by taller girl with curves? My crush is 6'3 n he's so hot. But he likes a girl whos only 5'1! Y? All his girlfriends were also short n skinny. My friend is friends with him n he told me that he really likes petite women. I dont undertand. I'm not hating on her I'm just wondering y so many guys still want short skinny girls. Whats wrong with a taller women with meat? Men, its 2015 n u need to give other girls a chance. Not everyone can be short n skinny. N I love my curves n height I am a beautiful women.

Orion1084 · Accepted Answer

I am 6'4", and I just happen to be engaged to a woman who is 5'1", and a size 0-2.

That doesn't mean that I have anything against taller women at all. I have dated girls as tall as 6'0" before with no problems. I am not with my girl because of her height and size, though. I am with her because of who she is. She could be 5'10" and a size 8 (just as an example), and I'd still love her.

Some men are like me, and don't put a lot of emphasis on height. Others are just attracted to shorter women. It's not something that can be changed or controlled; attraction is a biological impulse. That would be like getting mad at a gay man because he's not attracted to women.

That being said, there are plenty of tall guys out there who are attracted to taller/curvier women. One of my best friends is 6'5", and he's engaged to a woman who's 5'9", and 210 lbs. He hates short, skinny women.

It's impossible to say that all tall men prefer short women, because attraction varies from person to person, regardless of their height.

HorrorFan · Accepted Answer

So you are yelling at your preference (tall guys) about aiming for their own preference (petite girls)?

How about instead of yelling at taller men to give taller/meatier girls a chance, you dip into the other pool of guys and go for ones that are shorter?

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

I feel a bit awkward being a short and skinny girl, but I'll make a response nonetheless. My best friend is 6'3" and she has meat on her bones too, however everybody has their preferences and cannot necessarily be expected to change them just due to the times. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying anybody should be looked down upon for their looks, but all in all, people will always be entitled to be attracted to whatever body they want.

There are guys out there however who are into girls built like you, I know this because both me and my bestie when we go out get hit on by multiple different guys, and her more often than me in fact. It's all about finding somebody who is into what you have to offer. With the confidence you clearly have, I'm sure you'll find somebody worth holding onto.

Guysvsgirls · Accepted Answer

So, is being a size 2 with the height of 5'1 considered small? Cause most of the guys I see here go for the 5'4-5'8 girls who have awesome curves. How tall are you? And I honestly think, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some guys will prefer short (curvy or skinny) girls and some will prefer tall (curvy or skinny) girls. There's honestly no concrete answer to what guys (or girls for this matter) like better. Everyone's different.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hey I'm with you Hun. I'm a freaking long twizzler, except a little more curvy, and to me it seem like dudes go for the miniatures. But I think there are a lot of guys who like tall girls. But seriously why do small people hate being small?

Account · Answer

"My crush is 6'3 n he's so hot. But he likes a girl whos only 5'1! Y?" There is no "why". That's who he likes. That's who he wants. Bitching about it on a forum, won't change anything.

AleDeEurope · Answer

You complain because men don't date tall women (which is not true), but you don't like to date shorter men.
You're a hypocrite. You sound like the same girl that was bitching yesterday because men preferred skinny women.
We all have our own likes; it doesn't match who you are? Well suck it up, it is what it is, you can't change that, you either change yourself or keep being who you are, but bitching isn't gonna change anything.

UnknownXYZ · Answer

There as still *some* tall guys who prefer short and skinny woman; they find them most attractive.

"Whats wrong with a taller women with meat?" Maybe the man you find hot just don't find you attractive by coincidence.

"I love my curves n height I am a beautiful women." Maybe you see yourself that way but that doesn't mean a lot of guys think you are beautiful because beauty is subjective.

Lastly, would you go out with a guy 4 inches shorter than you? If the answer is no, then probably the shorter men who you will reject for being shorter than you would be asking the questions as you are.

RedThread · Answer

I'm 6'5" and I don't give a damn about height. I won't give a tall women special consideration for being tall.. Everyone is on equal footing when it comes to height to me. Most of the women I've liked in the past have been around average height.. Why? Because most women are around average height lol

Men tend not to prioritize based on height like women do.. It's one of the differences when it comes to beauty between the genders on average. Being a tall man gives me a lot of options so why would I only give certain heights priority?

zorro8888 · Answer

Do you realize how hypocritical you sound?
You're asking why us tall men like short women and yet you want a tall man... which means you love that men love shorter women. As it would help you get a taller man.

I'm tall and muscular so if that is defined as masculine... is it not only normal that I look for the opposite of those traits meaning a short and petite women.

Kris85 · Answer

Really? That's news to me, considering I am not short, nor am I skinny and I have never had any problems dating or dating tall men. I have dated guys up to 6'5 before.

By the way, I know who you are, you have posted this question many many times, just in different form.

LovelySerene · Answer

What a hypocrite... Have you ever thought that they date that person because they actually like them, not just because of height?

I'm 4'9 1/2 and I've dated a couple guys over 6' but it had nothing to do with their height... you need to chill out.

Tokana · Answer

It's cause they're short cute and adorable. Plus being able to lift up your SO with a single arm is tantalizing.

Tarvold · Answer

I prefer tall skinny girls, but that's not an option, so I chose short skinny girls.

The reason why guys like short skinny girls is simple. It's really really fucking hot to be able to pick them up with one arm and literally throw them around in the bedroom. They are a better fit as a small spoon. Their tiny hands and butts makes our dicks look huge. And they eat less, so instead of having a girl that keeps picking food off our plate, we get a girl that always leaves half her plate for us to eat too.

There's a lot of perks to dating a short skinny girl.

RationalMale · Answer

Lol, so you're obsessed with only dating very tall guys (over six feet) and you're complaining that said tall men *also* have their own standards?

geeky_artist · Answer

Im short 5'2" but definitely not a size 0. I have curves and am working out to get to a healthier BMI, however all the guys I have been rejected by happened to be maybe... between 5'2" and 5'8", and on top of that they were all a lot skinnier than me. But now it just happens that a 6' guy happens to like me for me. Maybe going outside your preference might help you find a guy who actually likes you for your height and curves.

existing_not_living · Answer

Okay, so you expect tall guys to expand their likes? How about you expand yours? I mean, tall guys like what they like. My bf is 6'2" while I'm 5'1", but I doubt he went for me just because of my height. We just connected really well. I don't think height is always a huge factor in who they choose to date. Sometimes the just click with girls that aren't all that tall. Sometimes they click with girls that are.

front2back · Answer

I'll like whoever the f**k I want, thank you very much.

Max_Powers · Answer

You can pick them up easily, move them around, take her from the counter to the bedroom easily. Makes them feel bigger cause they have less space.  Get where I'm going with this?

Hephaestus · Answer

"Everyone saying to date a short man. That is not my point! I dont like shorter men"

So... you want tall guys to stop liking short girls.
But you won't start liking short guys

Smells like double standards

TripleAce · Answer

Well like you just said 'you want to feel like a women and want to wear heels without feeling he's too small'

They want to feel manly and tall and big. They want to feel they can overpower their women and feel she's petite and small compare to them. They want her to feel as feminine as she can. Clearly

You sort of just answered your question

aamy811 · Answer

Wait so your telling guys they're being crazy for not dating you because your curvy. Yet your only demanding tall guys and ignoring shorter guys.
Hungry hungry hyporcrite!
Maybe tall guys don't like you because your personality sucks

Cheekkky · Answer

I am pretty short 5'2 and all the guys I have been dating have been at least 5'10. It's not only that I prefer tall men, but they too preferred short girls. I actually asked them why, and most of them said that it's because short=cute and easy to throw around. Haha but there are plenty of tall guys who only want girls close to their height.

Hopefuldreamer8 · Answer

So basically you're allowed to have your preferences but men aren't? Good luck with that. I know plenty of taller women who are curvy who are in relationships. My guess is that you're the problem and it's not your height. You need to change your attitude and stop hating on thin shorter girls.

Punkbuster107 · Answer

So, you only accept men of a certain height, but think men who choose not to date you due to a height preference are at fault? Interesting.

TALL MEN u have some explaining to do. How in 2015 so many tall men still going for skinny short girls? Y are petite women so attractive to u MEN?

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