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Saw my gfs sextape... wtf should I do?

I've been with my gf for almost 6 months and we've been doing good, recently tho her ex has been contacting her and stuff and it didn't really bother me Cuz I know she isn't gonna go back to him Cuz she told me about him and she's honest, but this muthafucker recently sent me an email with a link and the email said" you'll never please her like me" and i was curious to what it was so I clicked on the link and a video downloaded and it was my gf having sex with this bitch, it felt as if my world was crashing. Down as I saw my gf blowing this bitch, I havtn talked to my gf since, it's been 3 days and I'm just lost , what should I do? Should I talk to my gf or?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Talk to her. The ex is clearly trying to get under your skin, by sending that clip, with the hope that you'll probably break it off with her. The fact that the ex is doing that immature bullshit, means he still has feeling for her, but he sees you as a roadblock to her, so he's trying to play mind games to get you out of the picture. So don't feed into his bait.

    If I were you, I'll pretend like the video didn't phase me and reply to the ex's email by telling him "Yo bro, while you're behind your computer screen thinking about the girl you once had, always remember that it's my dick she's loving now, while yours is being entertained by that right hand."

    • Yea u make a good point, thank u

  • You're feeling bad because you feel that you're getting sloppy seconds. With the increase in sexual contact, everyone is getting sloppy seconds or thirds or fourths. The key thing to remember is that he's trying to get into your head. He's trying to fuck with your mind and your ego and your "manhood." Remember, she left him; so, the sex couldn't be that great. Secondly, it was in the past. You can't change the past; so, stop worrying about it. If you honestly let this video ruin what you have, then you shouldn't be with her. You should talk to her about the tape, but I'm sure she's going to tell you that he wasn't that great.

    • Yea ur right this muthfucker a trying to get in my head so I shludl just act like nothing wrong?

    • Essentially, yes. If you do not let it bother you, you won't feed the troll. He wants you to respond; he expects you to respond, but if you don't, it'll throw him off. Besides, you can't change the fact she made that sex tape. You can make one too with her and do more crazy things with her, but you'll still be bothered by the other tape if you let it bother you. So, don't let it bother you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Guess you talk to her so she can be prepared for it to hit online. If he's willing to circulate that through email he has no respect for not just her but also lack of respect for you. He's an immature child. I think you should tell her, show her but don't retaliate. If you don't give him fuel he'll exhaust himself from his own craziness. If you get back at him you have to come up with an endgame that will stop him for good on trying to hurt you and/or your girlfriend in the future.

  • Yeah you should talk to her but also you have to realise that if you want a long term loving relationship then you have to be able to love and accept a person for who they are and not what they did in their past. If her past bothers you that much then perhaps this relationship with her will only just be a learning experience and you have just learned what one of your deal breakers are so now you will be better prepared for the next girl you meet.

  • If this video was when they were together I think it isn't a big deal but if it is current and during your relationship I think chatting with your gf is the best bet. Either way this guy is a jerk and she should have no problem talking to you if she is sure she isn't going back to him. Don't show him any weakness and insecurity because he is probably wanting you to feel that way.

    • Thanks hope I helped :)

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  • Someone is going out of their way to make you break up with your girlfriend. Why not show the video to her and see what she has to say about this? Try to not let this affect your relationship too much as this was something in the past and your girlfriend may want to start fresh with you again :3

    • Right ugh I still can't get over the fact that she willingly recorded that :(

    • Some people love the idea of viewing themselves having sex with someone to be turned on or rarely check for mistakes. As far as this goes, he sent the video, not your girlfriend as she may not have a copy of her own or maybe even tossed hers away. If this concerns you greatly, you need to let your girlfriend know so things can be sorted out for the better :)

  • Make your own video and send to him.

    • I changed my mind. Delete email and forget about it. That happened before you.

  • Wow, I'd be pissed! But she did that before dating you (hopefully) so you should talk to her and see if you can work it out. But don't start talking to her pissed. Take time to settle down and think rationally before talking with her and listening to what she has to say for herself

    • Yea I was fucken pissed at goraf and then just I don't know This weird feeling like uh that's my gf!

    • For sure NEVER look at it again and try to forget it. I can't even imagine, that really sucks. Bad. You'll feel Less pissed over time, so just don't kill/break anything till you feel a bit better

    • Also, don't let it get to you too bad. That's exactly what that loser wants. Don't give him the satisfaction of pissing you off. Go ahead and be mad at him, but talk rationally to your girl. If she doesn't regret doing that, then get pissed at her as well

  • Just realize that's something from the past. Make a better one send to him and say "challenge accepted". If you can't get over it then leave her because you'll just argue about it too much.

  • Do nothing. He is just trying to provoke you so your gf might get back to him.

    Oh tell your gf about the sex tape you received! It's better to clear the air with her than stifling yourself with disappointment never expressed but turned into eventual rage. It won't be a good thing in the long run. It will eat you up.

  • Well I'm guessing that was in her past relationship & it doesn't have anything to do with her now. If she wants him she'll go back to him, but she's with you now.

    • Yea it was in her past, but why the fuck would she record it witb him 😡

    • Because people do stupid crap all the time

    • Asker don't feel bad about it... everyone does silly things in there lives... im sure she is really into you though...

  • Make a better one

    • Murder her in her sleep is my answer just for no reason

    • @M_A_X that's a bit harsh, no? Surely, she'd be pissed.

    • She'd be pissed about what? Being a dumb whore who couldn't tell someone was recording her? Sleeping with the kind of person that would do that? You choose your own answer

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  • Ok that video was pretty fucked up that he sent.

    First of all that video was the past and the present is right now she is with you... she didn't do anything wrong, she didn't cheat or kept any secrets from you...

    And second tell her about that damn video if he is able to send it through email he just as might send post it on the internet...

    And thirdly cool off don't be angry towards her and talk to her she must be more upset than you can imagine...

  • there's nothing to do except fap

  • Was this before she was with you or when she was with you? If it was during dump her.

  • post the link here

  • masturbate, obviously.

  • Get that bastard boy.. N settle the difference with him... And talk to your gf about this video.

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