My ex wished me happy birthday. Does this mean anything?

[PrincessPolly1]

My ex-boyfriend and I haven't seen each other in a year. We were long distance - living in different countries.

We went no contact after we broke up but spoke briefly about the breakup last September, which he said was hard for him. He said he felt "threatened" and "scared" when I got upset that he wasn't coming to visit me.

At Christmas time he sent me a message saying "merry Christmas Fifi", fifi being my childhood nickname. Then yesterday he sent me a private message on Facebook saying "happy bday, I hope you're well!".

Does this mean anything? I still think about him a fair bit... We had something good.

[smokahontas]

I don't think it means much but it means something. The fact that he remembered your birthday and he wished you a Merry Christmas means that you came across his mind. I am sure that if you two got back to talking, he would be interested in you again.

[Klaatu51]

he was just being nice :-)

[Sonaa]

it doesn't mean anything. it's not enough to assume anything. don't go getting ideas. unless he speaks his mind clearly, don't you go assuming things !

[PrincessPolly1]

Hence why I'm on this site...

[Sonaa]

No. this is what you didn't want to hear.
I'll be more clear. it doesn't mean anything ^^
if you still have feelings for him and want to get back together that's a whole other topic.

[Pinkbeauty]

he's probably just being nice