There are endless possibilities. I've actually been the guy in this situation a couple times. It wasn't anything in particular. One time it was just because I felt that being with her would be me only just settling. I felt that I wanted more. The other time, the girl was indeed amazing. her looks were intoxicating, and her personality was fun and exciting. But its the fact that I didn't feel a connection. I caould have stuck it out but it's like placing a baloon in water. there is still that cavity of air. He may feel the same way, or he may have some other reason. You will only find that out by talking to him. Personally, I would tell you that it's his loss, and you can do better, especially since he doesn't sound very mature.
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Maybe he learned something about you that he decided he didn't like but from your qualities I would have to say maybe he learned he was gay lol but seriously. You didn't explain how he lost interest like what happend did he not hang out with you when you had planes or did he just tell you straight to your faces because if he's just dropped off the face of the earth for a couple days I should tell you guys feelings are like waves some times all we want to do is be with you and then we pull away and so on and so forth
it's sad isn't it... I was with my boyfriend for a long time and then all of a sudden he just said he doesn't like me as much as he used to before .. :S why ? I have no idea he didn't have a reason he said .. all he said was that his feelings changed... Umm that's ridiculous their obviously is a real reason but he won't say it.. lmao anyways sorry for the life story over here
but to answer your question its because maybe they thought they liked you then got to know you and realized your not their type or .. got shy and backed away... or just decided they want to keep dating around .. their's endless possibilities but the only one true answer will come from him
Sorry this happened to you. I know exactly how you feel as it happened to me not so long ago and left me with millions of questions. However honey, don't think this guy is going to answer them for you. Sorry, but he might have a girlfriend, lost interest or just the chase wasn't thrilling enough for him.
My guy I found out only later is a real player and did it to two other girls in our building. I'm not saying every guy is like this, but yeah, it's better to know these things before you get your hopes up and your heart broken.
Good luck! It's not easy I know...
guys always (or most the time) like more than one girl, and even though one girl usually takes precedent over the other, sometimes he just changes his mind. guys crush on different girls for diff reasons, and one small reason might have tipped the scale. I unno If he likes you and you ask him out he'll probably say yes unless he's pursuing another girl.
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Probably not the answers you were hoping for:
How quickly is "so quickly"? Was it stringing along for months and then suddenly stopped? Could be he got sick of being Mr. Nobody. Could be that he decided that, if he was getting trivial attention, he was only being an irritation and decided to bow out.
Or was it a couple of weeks and then curtains? Could be a passing phase or fad.
"Maybe he learned something about you that he decided he didn't like". Probably most likely of the lot. It's easy to make some observations, then fill out your mind map of that person on the basis of those observations plus a bit of inspired (and hopeful) guesswork, then fall for that caricature only discover that what's in your head and what's in the real world share tenuous links at best.lol you gave it up to him to fast. You have to remember once you have sex you need something else holding you together, because he will get bored of your body fast. To many girls make the mistake of having sex quickly and it leads to there guys getting bored.
its sad because I feel like mine is like that now but I am scared to tell him :(
Maybe you were giving him mixed signals and he got bored of chasing you
It's another girl.
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